I have been thinking about this for a few months now but I think I need to take a step back from this kink and the others I have for a while. I have an idea on how to go about it but I am unsure on how effective it will be during this time.
any advice would be great
Ghost she/they
I think keeping yourself as occupied with as possible with other things might be one solution. If there’s 24 hrs in a day and you work for 8 hrs or so, maybe Binge watch your favorite shows for a few hrs and probably do a little browsing at the mall or something,… the remainder of hrs you have left… you’ll use those for sleep. That way you’ll be doing other things to keep yourself occupied and we both know, you’re not going to get off in public… so that’s where the mall and workplace come in. I noticed myself, that when I drive out to my cousin’s house I’m actually giving myself a break for some hrs because I know damn well I’m not playing any videos or occupying any bathrooms over there… with a house full of people
What would be the objective? For example you find yourself spending too much time here to the point it’s affecting other aspects of life?
Just to give myself a refresh as it is starting to lose its spark also I spend far too much money on fetish based things
It’s hard to step back from something you find so easily gratifying. When you are turned on by something people do or certain aspects of their appearance, you can forget they are people. Liberace once said the too much of a good thing is wonderful. But, you have to realize like I have that some fetishes separate you from other things in life you could be enjoying. One thing that has completely made my fetish disappear was quality time with good friends, especially when we take trips together. Genuine personal interaction completely makes me forget about the fake intimacy I get through my kinks. I hope you find the proper balance in your life when you feel weighed down by things that turn you on the most. It’s not easy to balance the scale.
I mean I quit smoking so how hard can this be?
I kinda want a break from all porn related things too haha my sexuality is strongly linked to burping. Strictly straight, but it’s like everything sexual is burping and it feels good to get off but I feel guilty too since I have a partner. We just can’f be sexual everyday or even every week due to our lives and schedules so I feel super horny with no means of getting off. She sends me voice messages and videos sometimes but nothing, nothing ever beats the feeling of real life and I find that hers are weaker than the ones I can find online which makes me feel guilty. Sometimes I think about deleting all my videos I have saved up over the years and not searching it up but what if we split up and I’m left with nothing? I’m just not sure. I also have some videos that other people don’t and it’d feel bad to know that piece of media has been lost because idk where ro upload them or am too lazy to