Another thing I have been thinking about
I just made a post about camgirls and I want people, specifically younger, to know that spending money on content is not something you should do regularly nor is it something I have done with either cam girl mentioned.
I understand the draw to spend money on videos–particularly if you are self conscious about the fetish and feel as though you may not be able to access it privately anywhere else.
Do not go crazy
Do not spend your last dollar on this content. Contrary to what your mind tells you at 1AM this fetish is not more important than money or your goals. This is not something to be consumed by and if you feel as though you are, you aren’t ; plain and simple. There are times where this fetish feels like it may have more gravity than normal, “you can’t escape it”. In those instances it’s better to embrace it– but do it in a manner that benefits you. Remember your goals and how this is a small piece of a much larger person. Remember to not let it consume you entirely. it can’t and it won’t. urges pass. its hormones. but it is important that you don’t let it inhibit your real life.
Be greater than the sum of your whole. (and if you haven’t watched Flipped yet you should)
If anyone has questions or concerns don’t hesitate to DM me.
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Don’t necessarily disagree but I will say I actively choose to spend money because I know I’m getting willing participants in the fetish. Sometimes I don’t like the voyeurism as I know a lot of women who get clipped can feel really violated (or god forbid, you can’t verify someone’s age), so I like to pay for the service of having someone who is consciously and willingly engaged.
That said it sounds like you’re talking more about like, being addicted/insecure and draining your bank account on fetish porn, which is obviously not a good call lol. I’d honestly say just jerk off to something free and by the time you finish you won’t have the urge to spend money. Don’t pathologize the fetish by demonizing it, or demonizing your own spending on it from time to time. If you’re self-conscious about the fetish that’ll only make it a harder to resist spending money on it (believe me). Just relax and enjoy the ride - burping is a great fetish to have IMO, it’s so much fun lmao
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You’re totally right, and you make plenty of great points.
As I mentioned in the post, I had just made a post about cam girls which led me to thinking that I may be introducing some to a platform they haven’t discovered yet–one where the propensity to spend money quickly is profound. It was meant to be more of a warning to anyone vulnerable or that hasn’t been deeply exposed that “hey, this is easy to get sucked into, don’t.”
I think it is really important that people relax and feel comfortable with themselves but on a different side of the same coin I want people to remember that its not all that they are; there are other things going on in their life that may require that money more even though it may not feel that way in the moment.
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