continuing my mission to have more lesbian/sapphic centric threads on here…
been wondering what sapphics with the fetish consider hot and if there’s a difference in gaze vs males. i mentioned it before but my girlfriend knows about my fetish and entertains it pretty often, so i’m quite lucky. i think an example would be i’ve been really into her burping in my mouth while kissing lately.
in general, i personally find it attractive when a girl burps without excusing herself in public. (my girlfriend only does it accidentally and gets a little embarrassed, which is fine.) i know some people prefer excusing one’s self, but i like that it feeds into an “unladylike” narrative.
but yeah, curious to hear what y’all find attractive as lesbians/bis/pans, etc. and why.
I’m also curious how much sapphic burp fetishism differs from other types, if at all. I kind of imagine it’s not that different in most ways and discussion about “excuse me” vs no “excuse me” or burp kissing or anything else would probably have a similar split here than they would in any other thread on the subjects.
(personally, I’m more the opposite of you, thinking an “excuse me,” especially when it’s less a genuine request for pardoning and more a coy way of drawing attention to the burp from a partner can be hot (especially in public) and not really into burp kissing (but I think a partner pulling away from a kiss to burp can be really hot))
yeah honestly for me it’s like, a girl just doing it without even thinking about it. doesn’t apologize, will do it around friends/fam. ugh, my dream. I also love femmes so like, the concept of a femme doing something considered “masc” is so hot. My current gf does not burp, like ever. I’ve heard her do it on command twice maybe, and they’re so tiny (which is fine). I always burp around her in hopes to make her more comfy about it (also I just naturally burp a lot), but to no avail lol. I’m starting to think it might be a dealbreaker for me and that breaks my heart, I feel like shit about it honestly.
i love rude girls who belch in public. it’s extremely hot how they just don’t care, and show it to everyone. also like when they don’t say excuse me, but comment on the burp, like talking about how loud it was or how good of a belcher they are.
glad to know there are people other than cis male in this comunity… hoping to meet more sapphics here and perhaps exchange burps!
aww man, sorry to hear that about your gf. do you feel comfortable bringing it up to her? does she know? it may be worth bringing up especially if you find it may be a dealbreaker.
i think i waited a bit before bringing it up to my gf. we’ve been together a few years now, so i thought it was important to highlight. idk how far along you guys are, but if she really cares about having something long-term, she’ll be empathetic at least, welcoming at most. even though she doesn’t have the fetish, my gf admitted to me that once i brought it up to her that she tries to work on her skills and really wants to learn how to on command.
have always adored girls like that. just the other day i was at a bar with friends and this random girl just ripped one before leaving. my friend and i were really impressed and this led to us talking about enjoying burping and burping for each other which was really fun.
i’d be opening to exchanging. i wouldn’t say i’m like a master or anything, i can get some decent ones out but rarely anything extraordinary without some carbonated courage.
I genuinely do not see myself ever bringing it up to her, or any partner I ever have. I hate that im embarrassed about it, I really do. Because I feel like if I admitted it maybe she would do it, I just can’t bring myself to I fear. But im so happy for you and anyone else that is able to, living your best life!!
If they love you then they will understand! I don’t want to pressure you, but you should feel comfortable with opening up. What partner doesn’t want to turn their person on
on another note, im willing to trade with any girls here lol. Also if anyone plays video games or something we can chill and just let it flow I do it a lot with my friends and im known for burping while I play without realizing LOL
To answer your initial question as a bi woman who has had much more experience with men, not really by preference but mainly because of the opportunities that have come my way, my fetish manifests itself much more with women. My theory on this is that the unladylike aspect is the most exciting. Women who burp break the codes of femininity and display a nonchalance that makes them admirable
I do it a lot with my friends and im known for burping while I play without realizing LOL