Ive noticed that there are barely any women who have this fetish. Its so incredibly hard to find someone who is into burping im starting to give up. Where do people find a woman who loves to burp?
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Aww I hope you find someone .. I think we all have been there or still is
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feel like thereâs a lot of them, not necessarily with a fetish for it, but who like to do it. Try girls at grungy bars, with tattoos or who are into sports.
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The fetish itself is rare as it is, finding a male or female with it in your real life is very slim chance. But hello33 is right, there are A LOT of girls (and guys for that matter) who do not have the burping fetish but are good at burping and like to do it.
If you are pinning all your relationship hopes on finding a woman with a burping fetish, that is, in my opinion, mostly false hope that will never happen. You will waste away good opportunities to be in relationships or get to know other women.
A more realistic approach is to meet and date women without any preconceptions about burping, then if it gets a bit serious you should not waste time in telling them about your fetish. Do not feel shame about it, even if you know they do not have the fetish.
The vast majority of people are very accepting of fetishes like burping, they may have never heard or thought about it as a fetish before, but thereâs nothing âbadâ about it. It may be seen as slightly quirky by some, but who cares? People love quirky. lol.
If they are good at burping they will probably be more than happy to do it for you. And if they are good at burping and willing to do it for you, it almost makes the idea that you need/want a girl who has the fetish as well a moot point. They donât need to have the fetish to perform it or ask about and understand it.
Just keep on meeting people, getting to know them and eventually you will meet a girl who is good at burping. Itâs just a numbers game, like all dating/meeting people, the more you put yourself out there, the higher chance of meeting the one who loves to burp.
The biggest challenge for me when I was younger and meeting a lot of new friends was that I would meet quite a few women who would burp a lot, there was just no chance of relationships with them, which can be really hard to accept. At times it really helps me to remember that burps werenât put on this earth to satisfy people with burping fetishes. Focusing too much on burping IRL, rather than just being a good friend and not worrying about who can and canât burp, can cause issues, for me at least.
Anyway, sorry for long reply, hope you can gain some insight from it. And I hope you will meet more girls who burp.
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Hot take but I think the gender split is wayyy more even than you think. Men are just much more likely to post in online fetish communities so thereâs a ton of selection bias
Women are just as kinky as men, including anyone you can meet on a dating app or anywhere else. Sure the odds of them specifically having a burp fetish are still ~0% but if theyâre kinky in other ways then itâs likely theyâll be receptive to the idea
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You could be right, to a certain extent anyway. But as someone who has been around the community for at least 20 years, it still doesnât seem right to me. The bias in the online burping community is and always has been heavily biased towards men. I could accept that women are slightly misrepresented, maybe by 10-15% due to the reasons you have said. But I still donât really believe it, women do also join fetish communities and post online.
You donât see such a huge bias like this in fetishes that are both common in men AND women, just a slight one, but not a glaringly obvious for decades one. Iâm more inclined to believe the bias has more to do with psychology. Certain subsets of fetishes are more common in men and some are more common in women.
When you look into it, it actually makes a lot more sense. But Iâm not going to try explaining it myself because it would take a long time to write out and I suck at explaining thingsâŚ. But I did use AI to provide some information you may find interesting, itâs stuff which has been backed by research and data so pretty hard to deny.
CHAT GPT:
This is one of those uncomfortable facts people dance around, but the data we do have (clinical, survey-based, and behavioural) points to men being more likely to develop highly specific, object- or action-focused fetishes.
Burping, farting, feet, armpits, balloons, inflation, mechanical stuff, etc. â these tend to be male-dominated.
Why?
Male sexual arousal is more:
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Visually triggered
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Externally focused
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Easily conditioned
Men are much more likely to sexually imprint on a random stimulus during early arousal. Pavlovian as fuck. Pair arousal with âthing Xâ a few times and boom â fetish unlocked.
Womenâs arousal tends to be:
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More contextual
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More relational
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Less tied to a single isolated stimulus
That doesnât mean women canât have fetishes â they absolutely do â but theyâre statistically less likely to fixate on something as narrow as âburping itself, divorced from everything elseâ.
FOR WOMEN:
There are kinks where women dominate numerically, but theyâre usually framed differently and donât always get labelled as âfetishesâ.
Examples:
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Erotic power imbalance (especially consensual)
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Emotional vulnerability
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Competence / authority attraction
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Erotic caretaking
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Voice, tone, presence
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Certain BDSM roles (especially submissive ones, though dommes exist too)
Notice something?
These arenât usually about a single sensory stimulus. Theyâre about dynamics.
Men: âThat thing turns me on.â
Women (on average): âThat situation turns me on.â
Same end result, different wiring.
It also did go on to partially agree with you, as I did, the numbers are slightly skewed but nowhere near enough to make it even.
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Itâs hard to find if you focus only on the burping rather than building meaningful relationships and then mentioning what you like.
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I also think that finding someone who does not have the fetish will be more beneficial
Yes going to the bar is definitely somewhere to find people who will be burping most likely
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Iâm glad Iâm into men, Iâve hooked up with guys who let out huge burps nonchalantly just cuz thatâs how men are and itâs the hottest thing ever, whereas I donât think most women would dare to do such a thing in front a hookup.
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Indeed. The most common places to find people burping for me have definitely been house parties, bars, and nights out in general. Anywhere alcohol is served is a fairly good chance. And if Skriller is young, they should have an even higher chance, as for me, at least, I met most of my friends in my 20s, and I feel like young girls are less self-conscious about burping in public.
Hearing a massive burp from an adjacent room at a friendâs house party and going to investigate who did it was how I met one of my female friends who loves to burp. That was 20 years ago, and she is still the best burper that I know.
Thatâs how easy it can be, Skriller. If youâre hanging out with new friends and you hear one of them burp, donât be afraid to give them a small compliment like âHey, awesome burp!â or something like that; it goes a long way to making them feel comfortable about it around you and can even be a fun little ice breaker if youâre just meeting them or getting to know them.
Obviously, if they are just friends and not someone you are dating, I wouldnât recommend telling them directly that you have a burping fetish, though tempting that may seem; in my experience, telling friends, even the ones who burp a lot, isnât really beneficial. And you can easily dance around the subject with them and let them know you enjoy their burps without raising suspicions. But with the people I date, I tell them within the first couple of weeks, without shame, and Iâve never had a negative reaction.
Yes that is so true
anywhere lots of drinking is involved
And actually young girls are hipped to the fetish as there are people who is putting it out there
They know, noticed how there are a lot of content out there now that they want to make money from it
And men blow up the comment section social media
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Yes, I have noticed there is a lot more burping content online these days. I think things like TikTok helped to make it more mainstream. As you say, if a girl burps in a video, the comment sections get blown up, and the view counts go up. That creates an incentive for people to burp in videos; we used to see similar things happen in the earlier days of YouTube as well. Girls who didnât have or initially didnât know about the fetish became aware of it accidentally because they burped in a video and saw their view counts go up on that video. Although back then it seemed like a lot of them were kind of clueless about the fetish, even after discovering they could generate views by making burping videos.
These days people are much more aware of fetishes and arenât so naive to believe that people are watching their burping simply because they find it entertaining. Itâs a good thing, in my opinion. Fetishes should be more widely accepted and understood. Many still feel the shame of having a fetish like this, and it breaks my heart to see posts or comments like that on here or within the community.
We should not be ashamed, we should count ourselves as lucky, lucky to have an experience people without the fetish will never have.
So if young girls want to embrace their burps or sell them to us, I am most definitely all for it. I think itâs also part of a broader shift in society and a gradual loosening of the etiquette and strict manners of the past regarding burping. And as far as fetishes go, burping is one of the ones that can be fun for people who donât even have the fetish, people feel comfortable with it most of the time.
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Iâm sure thereâs some Drew Barrymore or Cameron Diaz type chick out there that just LOVES to burp. Youâd be surprise how many pretty girls act when theyâre around their close female friends or alone. Itâs possible, it might take some time or some luck, but itâs possible.
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I know if itâs actually a good thing .. it might be good for those who like watching content but with everyone knowing of the fetish it donât feel like itâs a good idea but thatâs just my opinion
I believe drew barrymore has the fetish .. and Diaz just one of those females who find it funny.
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But do people really not know burping fetish exists, like deep down if they actually thought about it? Even though people were slightly naiver in the past, there has been âRule 34â even since I was a kid. âIf it exists, there is porn of itââŚ. Kind of implies burping fetish exists, along with everything else. I think people not understanding that fetishes are a thing that exists and that they encompass every body part and function imaginable is not just naive, but ignorant and stupid. Seeing them in a negative light is even worse. If the fetish exists, which it does, Iâd rather have people see it in a positive way, led by people who have the fetish themselves, rather than naysayers and ignorants spouting BS about fetishes being a bad thing.
And knowing that a fetish exists and accepting that fact is a lot different from someone actually knowing itâs a fetish that you have. I mean, if people want to spend their entire lives holding in their burps because they are concerned someone around them may have a burping fetish, their loss, I guess. Foot fetishes exist, are common and basically every person understands that foot fetish is a thing but I have never seen or heard of anyone being selfconcious about or hiding their feet from the public because they are concerned someone with a foot fetish might get aroused by it. I donât really see why it makes a difference what the fetish is, as long as it is not an explicit one, they should be treated and accepted equally.
I canât even really think about any problems or concerns Iâd have with people being more aware and accepting of burp fetish or other body-related fetishes that are just natural parts of being a human being. And besides, people knowing it exists doesnât actually prevent me from living my life and enjoying my fetish the same way I always have, I would still have no obligation to tell anyone and itâs not going to prevent the vast majority of people from burping like they normally do. It only seems like a big or bad thing because we put so much emphasis on it in our lives, but itâs mostly just projection on our part, most people who get told about something like burping fetish are going to be like âOKâŚ..Cool, thanks for the infoâ then get on with living their lives, they arenât going to waste too much time thinking about something they have zero interest in which barely effects them. But it might disarm some of the weirdness surrounding it and make them more accepting of people with fetishes they may meet for some reason in future. Fetishes are not uncommon in general, I feel sorry for those people who donât have one, but thatâs no excuse for ignorance or shaming. People should endevour to accept and understand their fellow human beings more, particularly with something that is common in ~53% of people in some form or another.
Thatâs my take anyway. Fully understand if you feel differently, though. Many here probably feel the same way as you, I get it, this is a safe space for many of us, the idea of outsiders being too privy to it can seem scary or weird. But I decided years ago that I would never be ashamed of my fetishes, would always be accepting of other fetishes (even the ones I find gross), and would do my best to encourage and help other people in the community struggling to come to terms or understand thier fetish, I feel we all deserve that. No one else is going to do it, we need to advocate for our own fetish and build each other up when we can.
Just having discussions like this on here is part of that for me as well. All part of my quest to understand and explore the burping fetish and the people who make it up. But it really wouldnât hurt for some of that awareness and understanding to filter through to the general populace, in my opinion.
They definitely know that the burping fetish exist
And now that they know thatâs why content is being to make money off of it
I have no issues with people making money out of it. If you are good at something that people want, you should be paid for it. Thatâs just business. Supply and demand at itâs finest. Capitalism in action, if there was no monetary incentive for some people they simply wouldnât bother to share their burps at all, so really that can only work in our favour.
Expecting people to burp for us for free just because they are good at it is one of the worst parts of this community, in my opinion. We have no right to those burps, of course, we scavenge what we can, and that is fine, but to expect it or be annoyed about people making money off of it is the height of toxicity in the fetish community.
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You are right us females she be paid to entertain any fetish
I absolutely agree you
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The idea that drew has the fetish is a very fun one indeed. Either way, she seems a proper good laugh, and would certainly fulfil the role of âa good friend whoâs a really good burperâ if she wasnât globally famous 
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