Always hearing others you don't want burping

Just a slight vent cause for a long time, (should be getting better soon), I’ve been waiting for my own room at least, but i am so so SO TIRED of hearing my family burp like, i usually don’t care cause we (humans) naturally burp anyway, but if its a lot or something, its really annoying and one time i was already upset (abt personal stuff) but one of my parents kept burping and it didn’t help cause i ended up silently crying and like, besides that time… I already barely have anywhere for myself (at the moment) so at MOST I can just use my earbuds when they’re available but at the same time I its just so annoying if ppl are burping a couple (double that) times in a day especially if you’re near them all the time like, if I had a punching bag for frustration right now I’d punch it a dozen times like :sob::sob::sob::sob::sob:

It’s like, I know people burp anyways, but WHY WOULD I WANNA CONSTANTLY HEAR PPL I DON’T WANT TO BURP DO IT? Like, I get slightly annoyed and like “:/” to girls burping and other ppl I don’t wanna hear burp but kinda distress if I keep constantly hearing my family do it and like :upside_down_face:

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I think that is the main issue with this fetish, it is a natural bodily function that most of the population does. Yes it sucks that you have to deal with this but surely you could say something. I don’t know the full situation and of course don’t mention the fetish but they might be more mindful if you say that it is causing you distress. I hope things get better for you soon as it sounds like it sucks.

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That’s how I feel when it comes to trying to find male burping content but 99% of what you can find out there is female because there’s a much larger straight male fetish market…

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i kind of get what you are saying, as my roommates burp occasionally. but it feels like, there is a balance between the female and the male burps i hear. even though there are more male burps (that i dislike)

but i’m also stressed by other noises that i can’t control taking over the atmospheric nothingness of home

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Yeah, I think it is something most, if not all with this fetish can relate to.

I know exactly how you feel. I can’t stand it when I hear people burp I don’t want to hear burp, particularly family members but also others, like just males in general for me. Close male friends is a particularly bad one. Another one for me is old people, but old ladies mostly, anyone who looks over like 50, but as I have got older, that limit continues to naturally go up.

But the burps I hate the most intensely, females that I am related to; that is the most disturbing shit I have ever had to experience throughout my life. It’s torture for the psyche. It’s even worse if, like my sister, they do the kind of burps that, if it were any other female, I would love it… It’s deeply disturbing, and there is no way to prevent it; you just have to sit through it and hate every millisecond of it.

Weirdly enough what helps is to go find some burps you do like and watch those to cleanse the mind of the taint of bad and wrong burps you have had to sit through. It can be a bit hard if the bad burping is constant, though; I feel for ya.

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Yes, it used to absolutely disgust me when I heard my mom burp in particular or other family members but no one else.

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