Like, yes im actually a cis female with the fetish (F26) and some people don’t believe it because I haven’t posted anything of me on here . I’ve sent burps AND my voice to people on here (and that I met thru twt), and literally had a whole Twitter account where I posted kinda nsfw vids and pics before I was threatened about being doxxed and deleted it. How tf do I convince people im an actual female that has the fetish without showing my face?!
EDIT: mind you I’ve done all this shit for free because I like it… if I was catfishing I’d charge for it??? like hello what
I dont think you have to prove anything to anyone some people are just socially retarded about that kinda stuff due to alot of weird people just ignore the people who need proof so they’ll speak to you even after you send pics and videos dont feel the need to send people stuff to prove your yourself from my time here ive never had anyone ask to prove im anything so maybe it’s different now from when you made your post
Just be yourself and dont let others assumptions about you dictate anything
Being a girl with the fetish is hard (though it has its perks) but I don’t really see why needing to confirm that you’re actually a girl matters. Like, just live your life. The only time it really matters is if you’re trying to attract attention to sexualize yourself and if so, that’s fine and I don’t mean to shame that, but I think it does kind of center male validation and your ability to offer yourself to other fetishists as the biggest struggle of being a woman with the fetish
if I was catfishing I’d charge for it?? like hello what
I was once approached by the sweetest girl you could imagine, with such an obvious crush on me too. At first I was suspicious as usual, but after a few pics and day of chatting my suspicions were entirely alleviated. Well, a couple weeks into that relationship she reveals she actually was an MTF after all, which was QUITE the shock, I had let myself get emotionally entangled with her at that point (she 100% passed).
Now, she meant no harm, her feelings were genuine, nor was she any kind of degenerate, one of the sweetest people I’ve met in fact. But fuck man it took me a month to re-develop that trust that this wasn’t some exceedingly elaborate catfishing or trolling operation. Or to come terms with that people like this can even exist.
And then coming off that relationship I due to some circumstances ended up close to another self-proclaimed MTF, but then it turns out they’re actually a real woman, merely claiming to be MTF to avoid male attention on the internet. Which due to the ex didn’t keep me away .
Anyway it’s a rough internet out there. It’s entirely understandable people are distrusting. Also, perhaps as actual advice, you’ll never convince everyone, nor should you. You have to learn to just ignore a lot of idiots on the internet, which, yeah, can be quite tough sometimes.
I don’t want to derail the whole thread, so last I’ll say on it, but I think it’s extremely reasonable to be upset when you draw a distinction between trans women (with the dehumanizing term “an MTF”) and “real women.” Like, it’s just basic transphobia. I think you can have your preferences, but it’s not like you were tricked and it does feel like what’s at stake in this whole conversation is that people like you are afraid of being “trapped” by passing trans women.
Ah I forgot I’m on an american fetish forum, culture here is bit different. I’m not familiar with your current norms, being an ESL european. I apologize for using politically incorrect language.
There really are a lot of men pretending to be women on the internet. If you see an account here that claims to be female, I’d estimate around a 50% chance that they’re actually a male. If I’m suspicious I’ll check for alts and the guy’s real account will be there posting under the same IP. No exaggeration it really is that many.
So it’s understandable that people are going to want some kind of evidence, and I don’t think there are many ways to provide that without deanonymising yourself a bit. I’m not saying you necessarily should do that, just that’s probably your only option.
You don’t have to. Let people evaluate their personal “risk” talking to you. With that said, who are you looking to talk to? Because my interest is piqued! lol
Yes it is hard but I have proven to people that I’m a female with and without showing my face I have actual conversations on voice messages .. phone and I sent pictures/vid but now there’s (Ai)
I have had a lot of men pretend to be a female to get interactions from me
There’s ways to prove you are a female without showing yourself
And brought up that you would make people pay but there are females that don’t show theirselves who sell content if didn’t know
I remember chatting with you a bit on Twitter awhile back. It was brief, but the burp you shared with me was legit, not to mention awesome. I know my word holds little weight, but I’ll vouch for ya.
It is a shame you deleted your account, though considering how awful people can be on the internet I’m unfortunately not surprised it happened. Honestly though, you don’t owe anyone anything, and if anyone says otherwise they’re just childish individuals that should be ignored by everyone regardless.
. I’ve sent burps AND my voice to people on here (and that I met thru twt), and literally had a whole Twitter account where I posted kinda nsfw vids and pics before I was threatened about being doxxed and deleted it. How tf do I convince people im an actual female that has the fetish without showing my face?!