Burp shy?

Burp Discussion
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I’ve always had the fetish (not a single person knows), but does anybody ever get burp shy? Like some of my friends will just so casually rip them in front of me and I want to be like that but don’t know how because even if i try to burp in front of them i swear it just goes back down because i get too shy to… same with in front of my boyfriend he will do it all the time and I always shy away from it. any advice? ik this sounds dumb Lol

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I do too, I think usually because I am fearful of the awkwardness afterwards with how others/I would react

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When other students or friends in high school and college participated in belching contests, I was always too shy to reveal that I could belch better than any of them.

Back then, due to social anxiety issues, I thought it best to keep it secret.

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Well to us, burps have a different context. Its almost the equivalent to walking out naked, so burping out loud publicly feels just like that. Whenever I hang out with friends I surpress them and hold them in as best I can subconsciously.

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I used to be like this to the point where I couldn’t even record myself doing any good ones. Def a mental thing bc now that I’m confident abt it I can do it anywhere anytime and it feels normal lol.

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Wait this is such a good point! It makes sense that it’s more embarrassing for us than others because it has a sexual connotation. Almost no one in my life has ever heard me burp, though I’ve been trying to force myself to allow it to happen around people since nobody else who burps around me ever seems the slightest bit embarrassed.

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Glad you see my point. To add on to that, it’s a perfectly natural thing for people to do and the vast majority of people aren’t even aware that it’s a fetish. We just have a skewed window to this sort of thing. That being said, I always mute my mic when I’m in a voice call with friends still even though they just keep burping much to my annoyance haha.

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Shame is ok, because it says that you can work through that and tell that someone, who you have deep trust in. Could be your therapist, people you meet and tell it them. Even sillier would be in a market square, when you’re with yourself. That what I did. :slight_smile:

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I experience that too…and have been thinking a lot about how I basically trained by body around burping for a long time…and now I’m reversing that training by supporting my body(mind/spirit) to burp :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

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Totally rezzing this thread, but as a relatively new burper, I just got caught by my FAMILY and MY SKIN IS CRAWLING I HATE IT :skull: I tried to do it closed mouth and it was still insanely loud, and my mom said “I’ve heard you several times today. You can burp now?” I HATE ITTTTTT :sob::sob::joy:

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I get shy around people I find intriguing but that don’t know me well but it’s unsustainable for me to try to hold them in, the best I can do is try to muffle them.

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Damn :grin:

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I used to be this way around non-family members (always had an extremely burpy family) but then I started doing it at friends houses in high school and they were so impressed with my burps that they would egg me on at school and at parties and eventually I gave in, and ever since then I really haven’t had much shame letting them rip wherever whenever (with obvious exceptions like church, work, etc)

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Never had a crazy ability to burp and i have never once burped infront of someone but if i were id be so embarrassed my face would get so red you could chop me up and make tomato soup