Burp shy?

I’ve always had the fetish (not a single person knows), but does anybody ever get burp shy? Like some of my friends will just so casually rip them in front of me and I want to be like that but don’t know how because even if i try to burp in front of them i swear it just goes back down because i get too shy to… same with in front of my boyfriend he will do it all the time and I always shy away from it. any advice? ik this sounds dumb Lol

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I do too, I think usually because I am fearful of the awkwardness afterwards with how others/I would react

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When other students or friends in high school and college participated in belching contests, I was always too shy to reveal that I could belch better than any of them.

Back then, due to social anxiety issues, I thought it best to keep it secret.

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It’s kinda similar for me. Like for whatever reason in public my burps are just a lot smaller than when I’m just casually eating or whatever at home.

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Well to us, burps have a different context. Its almost the equivalent to walking out naked, so burping out loud publicly feels just like that. Whenever I hang out with friends I surpress them and hold them in as best I can subconsciously.

I used to be like this to the point where I couldn’t even record myself doing any good ones. Def a mental thing bc now that I’m confident abt it I can do it anywhere anytime and it feels normal lol.

Wait this is such a good point! It makes sense that it’s more embarrassing for us than others because it has a sexual connotation. Almost no one in my life has ever heard me burp, though I’ve been trying to force myself to allow it to happen around people since nobody else who burps around me ever seems the slightest bit embarrassed.

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Glad you see my point. To add on to that, it’s a perfectly natural thing for people to do and the vast majority of people aren’t even aware that it’s a fetish. We just have a skewed window to this sort of thing. That being said, I always mute my mic when I’m in a voice call with friends still even though they just keep burping much to my annoyance haha.

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Yes, mine always goes back down when I need to burp and I’m around others. It’s like I’ve trained my body to suppress my burps in front of other people or in public. When I’m alone I don’t have this issue though.

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Shame is ok, because it says that you can work through that and tell that someone, who you have deep trust in. Could be your therapist, people you meet and tell it them. Even sillier would be in a market square, when you’re with yourself. That what I did. :slight_smile:

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