Has anyone ever chugged a bunch of drinks in public so they could burp to get people’s (women’s) reactions? I feel like such a weirdo freak but every once in a while i get a strong urge to go do this
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I’ve been curious about starting a thread around a question about the ethics of public play (because my girlfriend has been doing more of that with me and I’m curious where y’all think the line should be). But I think this raises a point about if you’re doing something that’s sexual for you, in the hopes of getting a reaction out of other people, is that not some kind of violation? Feels adjacent to like flashing or obscene phone calls
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I think the difference between this and flashing for example is not whether the thing is sexual but how that sexuality is expressed. Flashing directly and openly involves someone else in the sexual act, and that’s the thing that people do not like. In other situations though it’s at least a grey area.
Say for example you’re at a party. One couple at the party are whispering sexual things to each other because they think it’s exciting to arouse the other person in a public setting. Technically that violates the consent of everyone else at the party who are unknowingly taking part in someone else’s sexual activity. In practice though, no one really is negatively affected. It only becomes a big deal if they’re openly and directly involving everyone else in the sexual stuff. Otherwise it’s just ‘okay TMI, I don’t care but I don’t need to know the details’
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I think an immediate difference in the situation youve described (which is its own can of worms already) is that the whispering wouldn’t really be audible to the other party-goers. If youre actively trying to get reactions out of people I think that involves them in significantly more direct way
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I think I agree that it seems pretty similar to like flashing or something. Its one thing if you like to play with your partner discretely in a corner because you like the idea of being near other people. Im not into it myself by I guess it can be done in a harmless way??
Thats not really what we’re talking about though, since trying to get a reaction out of people has been brought up. In my opinion, thats too far. I think its involving strangers well beyond them just incidentally being nearby, now theyre right there perceiving you. It goes from “out of sight out of mind” to “now im involved in this thing”. it doesnt really sit right with me tbh.
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For me belching is either an activity to be shared in a receptive group (guys being guys, for example) or something intimate to be enjoyed between fetishists. As such, burping in public to get the attention of people who are not into the fetish or interested in burps at all feels, to me, embarrassing at best.
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I’ve def walked around incredibly stuffed while belching without a care purposely making sure others walking can def hear me. I didn’t rly care if it was women or not, an entire family saw and heard me and said oh wow as they walked by and it was pretty hot 
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Def something I’ve been turned on by recently 
maybe due to feeling emboldened by my gf
She’s fairly exhibitionist and we like the fantasy of her belching and generally being slobby in public. The furthest she’s gone IRL is burping while we drive past people with the windows down, or in non-crowded public spaces. She’s said she’d go further but only if it’s out of town away from anyone we know, and I haven’t had the balls/patience to go through with it (I get awful secondhand embarrassment)
To be more on topic, I realized sometime throughout this that I unfortunately also find it extremely hot to belch around women. I’ve never been the type to burp around non-fetishists, let alone in public, but have def grown bolder. For one, I’ve started burping obnoxiously loudly in my car (with the windows up) if I pass pedestrians, especially women that are around my age. I’ve also started sometimes burping quietly if I walk by people on the sidewalk.
I’ve yet to get any real reactions, likely since I’m not being very noticeable. I could say that’s because I find it morally questionable (which I do), but I think it’s also just as much timidness on my part. The idea of eliciting reactions is super hot
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and to comment on the ethics, I’m confident enough to at least say that being an overt public nuisance for the sake of getting your rocks off is poor antisocial behavior (hot take?)
TLDR don’t be this guy. Extremely relevant tiktok lol which one of y’all was this 
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Oh my god this is so true i always read shit like that from guys doing stuff like that on here and always think “wow this guy sounds like such an asshole to be around”
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Truthfully I think people that do this or full on go up to strangers and burp in their personal space deserve to be punched. It’s a hot scenario to think of a woman doing this to me, but I HIGHLY doubt anybody else thinks the same and would genuinely feel harassed
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As much as I like farts or burps, I would consider it borderline harassment and definitely inappropriate if someone around me was doing that in public even for the thrill of it.
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No one knows it’s sexual. Hidden in plain sight. That’s the fun of it. It’s okay to have fun. Don’t be a nuisance but people burp out loud in public sometimes.
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Taking the fetish hat off, burping in public loudly to get your rocks off is obnoxious at best. You’re forcing your sexual fantasy onto unwitting members of the public.