I met this girl we have been seeing each other for maybe 2 weeks shes this really pretty Chinese girl wonderfully caring person and I fell for her pretty hard and last night we started talking about sex and kinks she brought up BDSM and seems really open minded so I brought up the burping kink and she seemed fine with it and I haven’t slept since then for context we are both kinda awkward and she seems really into me saying stuff about how bueatful my eyes are and how I showed up in in her dreams I don’t know if I came across too forward we are still on good terms but I don’t know what me and her are and I wasn’t given any reason to think that I screwed up that badly I feel like she would probably have told me if I did but I cant help but feel that I fucked up somehow and would welcome any advice or feedback you guys might have
I think it’s normal to overthink when you tell people stuff like that for the first time. But if you can’t detect any kind of negative reaction or difference in behaviour then it’s all probably fine.
thanks yeah im sure your probably right thanks for the grounded prospective i really need to stop panicking like that
same vibe as this
this is actually like the most normal thing anybody has posted on here. Despite what some users might make you think, telling someone you’re dating about your kinks is actually not weird at all. Sounds like you’re doing just fine. Hope it goes well!
Thanks! so far things have been wonderful and i have a feeling everything is gonna work out! I can keep updating you guys here on how things are going if you want I’ve felt so much more confident after reading the replies and no longer feel like I ruined everything I hope you guys have had a amazing day/night you’ve certainly had an impact on mine
Yes please keep us updated i hope everything goes great with her.
Can you use periods pls
I was very tired when I made this post.ill try to do better with that though. 
will do. 
I’m thinking about asking her this Saturday to be my gf. I told her that I really liked her a few weeks ago. and she said she wants to go on more dates before we decide on anything. I don’t know if its the right choice to say anything yet but oh how I want to. I felt that the feedback I got was really insightful last time. do you guys think I should say something? or should I wait?
unfortunately, I have more experience telling people I have a burp fetish than I have with asking someone to be my girlfriend. So take this with a grain of salt. But I think the deciding factors of how you proceed are probably tied up in dynamics we just can’t know from your posts so far. But if you’re feeling that way, I don’t think it’d be a bad idea to raise the topic again, with the intention of expressing how you’re feeling and what you want, just for the sake of transparency to her. I feel like there’s a way to be honest without pressuring her into anything
the moment of truth is tomorrow! I’m so nervous! I’ll likely post an update sometime on Sunday.
been waiting to hear how it went…
sorry about that! some family stuff came up and didint have access to my computer. she asked me if we were exclusive. and I said yes im a one man show so I think we are good im really dense sometimes. so i wasent sure what to make of it 
. sorry I kept you guys waiting like that.