Do you have multiple fetishes, or just burping. Also, do you still have much of a ‘normal’ sexual desire e.g. do vaginas/penis’/normal porn still turn you on, and to what degree?
I ask because I find it interesting of course, but also because my own sexual preferences are very complex and don’t resemble a ‘normal’ persons much at all. And I am just curious to know how normal that is for people with the fetish, or if it is more straight forward for some.
The only things that can turn me on to a significant degree are: Burping, Hiccups, Bare Feet, Boobs. And exclusive from females only. The girl also usually has to fit into a certain body shape and facial features. That is average to slim build, not overweight (chubbymunchkin is an odd and only exception to this rule), what I consider a cute or hot face, also be within the age range of 18-late thirties. I would say that I am fairly shallow and picky. Easily more than 50% of girls are automatically disqualified based on looks before I have even heard them burp. Those are the basic criteria. Bare in mind I don’t have any control over this, I just like what I like.
Crucially I also have none of the usual sexual desires (unless you count boobs), both penises and vaginas are equally disgusting to me and both an instant turn off. This part of my sexuality is extremely strong and important. So much so that if I see any genitals at all in a video, regardless of anything else, I will be turned off and unable to watch that video again. Therefore ‘normal’ porn is extremely disgusting to me, I can’t stand even reading the titles or seeing the thumbnails, my sex drive and desires are completely dissociated from what I figure normal people experience. And it always has been. I didn’t suddenly start to like burping and hating vaginas an then it became a fetish. From as young as I can remember I have always been obsessed with burping and my other fetishes and knew it wasn’t quite normal. I never ever thought about girls in a normal way sexually like what I assumed all the other guys did. The idea of sex to me at that age was a mystery, something I wanted to avoid for as long as possible, something that made me anxious, something I had to pretend to understand and like in front of the other guys or even girls. As I quickly discovered everyone else seemed to be obsessed with it. Alas only my fetishes have ever been able to illicit any sort of sexual response in me.
Other major factors that may exclude certain content are; basically any other fetish other than the 4 I have myself, particularly farting, shitting, urine etc… Even 1 fart in a video ruins the entire video instantly. High pitched screaming/hysterical laughter, a male in the video at any point whether they burp or say anything or not. If the girl is doing anything overtly sexual like masturbating. All of these things majorly turn me off.
This is where it starts to get a bit more complex for me. I can easily rank my fetishes from most intense to least intense, each step downwards the desire and impact it has on me is probably only a 10th of the fetish above it. So it goes Burping->Hiccups->Boobs->Feet. They have always been in this order and at about this intensity. Each fetish is also very specific about what is a turn on and what isn’t. The older I have become, the more I have become in tune with my fetishes, what at first seemed like trial an error when I was younger and just listening to and watching anything fetish related I could find, over the years has become a much more specific desire, harder to find, but much more rewarding.
Now I say I have 4 fetishes, but I don’t know if the lesser 3 can actually be counted as fetishes in their own right because neither one of them can bring me to climax alone, but in combination they can increase the intensity of my burping fetish to a level that burping alone would never be able to accomplish. So you could say, my ultimate fantasy would be a 10/10 girl, with her boobs out, showing her bare feet, hiccupping and burping, the ultimate climax being one or more natural hiccup burps, and I don’t mean a hiccup and then a burp, I mean a hiccup that forces up a burp either on purpose or accidentally.
They can also be combined in any way, as long as burping is always included. E.g burping and feet together is better than burping alone, but it’s not as good as boobs and burping or hiccups and burping. But the lesser 3 combined, but without any burping, has an almost completely insignificant effect, even if all other criteria are perfectly met.
So my fetishes seem to be somehow intrinsically linked. Hiccups and burps I can easily understand the connection, they often come together and can cause each other. But feet and boobs I have no idea really, when I watch a girl in bare feet burping I find it most intense when they wriggle their toes or just play with their feet in some way as they burp, the more in sync with the burp it is, the more intense I find it. The same can be said about when a girl squeezes or plays with her boobs as she burps.
Also, just to clarify, I have nothing against other fetishes than my own. I just know what is good for me and what isn’t. When I say something turns me off or is disgusting I mean no offense and I don’t mean people who are into it are disgusting, or that its objectively disgusting in anyway. I just find it gives me that grossed out kind of feeling, there isn’t much other way I can describe it other than that. Burps are disgusting to a lot of people after all, and I’m not offended by that.
TL:DR: I don’t care if you read it or not, my spelling and grammar isn’t perfect. I know I over explain things, I can’t help it. lol