For anyone whose had a partner or even a close friend who was good a burping and burped often around you before you decided to tell them about your fetish, did telling them about it change anything about when or how they burped around you or others? Did it make you feel any different seeing them burp around you or others when you knew that they knew it was turning you on?
If I had a partner who was a good burper and I ended up telling her, which I’m sure I eventually would, I would really not expect much to change with her burping habits. But it makes me think that some girls after being told might be more reluctant to burp around you and more so when other people are around because they are weary of how it makes you feel.
I did have one girl friend over 10 years ago who was a really big and frequent burper even before we started dating, fairly soon into the relationship I told her that “Her burps made me smile” which was my way of kind of easing her into it before fully telling her I had the fetish. The result was great and she started holding back her burps even less after that, specially when it was just me and her around, but even when there was others, she really seemed to take pride in it. She would even fill me in on any particularly big burps she had done when I wasn’t with her which was awesome, alas I’ve had no relationships since then. But if I ever do I really hope the girl would react in a similar way, just wondering if that’s a common reaction or not?
I think it depends on if the girl considers it as being an acceptable thing or not to herself. I find that there’s a big difference between people, some consider it absolutely unacceptable at all times and wouldn’t do it even if I said it doesn’t bother me. Others either barely hold back, or just don’t care at all, so there would be little difference there too.
Something that’s rarer still is for a girl to be assertive about it. For example I might say ‘I’d like you to tell me or show me whenever you do that, can you?’ and she’ll say yes sure, and then it’ll never come up again unless I remind her. But it’s nice to find someone who does remember and does bring it up without me asking first.
My girlfriend just doesn’t care and burps when she has to, actually bigger and bigger month after month haha. So the fact that I told her since the beginning changed something but in a good way because she is not holding it in at all. The only problem I have is that she never burps « in a sexual way », in order to turn me on. She burps because she has to and she knows I like it but that’s all. Actually I told her very clearly that it turns me on and what I would really like her to do when she feels a burp, but she forgets way to fast to think about that when a burp comes According to her, it’s not a reflex because usually people don’t like seeing girls burp…
@Omnius i was with my gf for more than a few years before i told her, and her burp habbits stayed just the same. She only has natural burps, too many in a row will give her hiccups which she hates, so i dont think i will ever pressure her to try and learn on command.
When i told her about liking burps she told me in an endearing kind of way of, “well that is, weird” (as in different, not demeaning). Initially it made me feel a little anxious, since she would look back over at me when she would burp to see my reaction, i kind of felt like i was put in the spotlight.
That anxious feeling passed, and like for you omnius she has filled me in a few times so far saying, “oh you just missed a good one” or if she walked in the room and burped “i was saving that one just for you!” I’ve learned her burps just come out with very little warning and she cant really save them up, i know shes saying that just to make me feel even better which is nice.
Thankfully my girl already burped quite a bit before I told her but now she does it all the time and even on command. Anytime I buy her food she puts on a show for me.
It was extremely hard for me to tell my boyfriend about it. I’d never said anything to any of my past partners, just out of worry for their reaction. But since we had been dating for a while, and he’s a very supportive and considerate person, I figured he would be the best first reveal.
Prior to me telling him, he had burped in front of me a few times before. When I finally worked up the courage, after he was done, I said something along the lines of, “I think it’s attractive when you do that.” He proceeded to fall silent, and after a moment, I asked, “Is that weird?” I felt my heart sink when he nodded his head and said, “Yeah. A little.” I was incredibly embarrassed, and immediately wished I could take it back. But obviously, I couldn’t, so I attempted to simply bring a different topic for conversation.
Based on that, I thought he wouldn’t want to burp around me anymore. But honestly, he started doing so a normal amount. It was like I never said anything.
He asks me on occasion what he can do to make feel better sexually, and each time, I think of bringing it up again. But I never do.
According to her, it’s not a reflex because usually people don’t like seeing girls burp…