I feel like this fetish has become mainstream thing, in English (and maybe Spanish?) language - Thanks to YouTube and TikTok. I think most of young English-speaking people know about this fetish. If not, they can just easilly search it…
English-speaking internet has an endless number of videos, regular users, porn pages, even books and everything. Girls who post burps are often warned against “burping creeps and weirdos”.
But what about the hundreds of countries that have absolutely NO community associated with burping? Like my country in Central Europe, I feel like literally no one here knows it’s a fetish. I’ve searched the entire internet, and there’s not even a single mention or website about it in my native language. I found only an anonymous confession on some forum from many years ago where the person posting it treats it as something extremely embarrassing. This is strange because apparently flatulence fetishes are scientifically proven to be the most common.
On YouTube, all I found were a few videos from like 15 years ago featuring someone burping. And on TT, a few weak videos and “funny” memes about burping. There were maybe 2-3 good videos but they were deleted or hidden because I can’t find them anymore. There were also few good videos from my country at all, but from youtubers that just randomelly burp on some long video. But no one in the comments recognize it as attractive/sexy, but more like common toilet humor.
It’s even worse in real life; talking about your fetishes, especially at such a young age, is taboo. The chance of finding a woman irl who understands this fetish is nothing creepy or abnormal is close to zero. But I’ve tried a few times with girls I’ve been in close relationships without explicitly saying anything—for example, by sending them voice messages while I’m burping and joking about it, but the reaction was always like “Ew stop that’s disgusting”
Luckily, I’m bi male, and all the guys I’ve been with have been okay with burps. But despite many signals, they still didn’t get it as sexual thing. However, I have some great memories of burping with them, which I’ll share, but that’s a topic for another post.
I mean for Central Europe most people already speak English so like why not just go to the huge community making one is way harder than you think it’s mainly popular on English Spanish and Japanese who have a weird cum burp obsession like the two most spoken languages in the world have communities already
Also your irl point is retarded as fuck are you like mentally challenged sending it to girls unprompted btw then get mad when they say its gross which is a normal response even as someone with it instead of manning up and just saying it like what do you expect like jesus christ why do people on here act like its a horrible debilitating disease you have a very common and untaboo fetish making these dumb posts saying the exact same 5 things and everyone gives the same advice how do you expect to get anywhere if you dont do the simple thing of accepting yourself
“I mean, for Central Europe, most people already speak English, so why not just go to the huge community”- The point of this isn’t just to watch videos and masturbate to strangers. I think the goal for most people here is to find an partner irl who understands you. I’m not saying it’s easy even for people in English-speaking, Spanish-speaking, or Japanese-speaking communities. Now lets think about countries where knowledge of this topic is some strange taboo. Jesus Christ, did you even understand correctly what I wrote in the post?
I ACCEPT myself and should have talked more openly about it with the people I was in relationships with, but I was young asf. It’s one of the most common fetishes, but despite this, people in most countries treat it as a perversion, just like homosexuality did 60 years ago.
Finding a partner is not country specific you act like people are some hive mind everyone is different and i can admit i maybe read it wrong but when half of it is blabbering about online and tiktok or whatever it dosent really translate to “i find it hard to find an irl partner in my country” i interpreted it very differently
Finding a partner is hard yes but guys here make it harder cause they make the fetish thier whole reason for a relationship from my experience half the guys here don’t even know how to have a normal conversation if its not about jerking off to burps
Like even looking at your topics you sound like a fucking creep who dosent know how to act maybe thats your problem pal and comparing it to being a homosexual in the 1900s is just lol grow the fuck up dude youre not oppressed cause you get a hard on for burps
As I wrote in the post- I was sending burp-voice messages to girls I was already in close relationship. I wanted to broach the subject somehow. It wasn’t like, “I’ll send a burp to a random girl”.
I don’t consider burping as the main and the most important thing in a relationship. That would be impossible. But since my girlfriends were disgusted by it, I knew I wouldn’t be 100% happy. Learning about experiences like yours (guys who consider burping the entire relationship) was shocking for me because in my country, people don’t talk openly about fetishes, and something like that simply doesn’t happen. Again, there’s a misunderstanding here due to cultural differences. Half of the post is about TikTok and everything else, to compare the level of awareness of this fetish in these societies.
I compared this example to homosexuality – in my country, homosexuality was never illegal or punished- but just a few decades ago, these people “didn’t exist” in the media or in public spaces. Simply no one talked about it, and admitting it was shameful, and people would consider you as pervert and stay away from you. It’s similar now, but half the people accept it, and the other half might be aggressive towards you (but that’s not the topic of this discussion).
My point is that the burping fetish is just as absent from the public consciousness as homosexuality was back then. This causes frustration and a sense of strangeness.
I don’t know which of my posts you consider creepy – but a fetish forum is a place where you share your thoughts or memories about burping.
Okie okie when you explain it more deeply i do see your point the way it was worded before made it seem very weird sorry to come off as aggressive but yeah misunderstanding i get English isn’t your main language and im very stupid
I guess for your pov its kinda just an easing in kinda thing? Snice you like when they hear you burp and stuff for example my first boyfriend had a burp fetish i wasn’t really into it but doing it was fun and over time it made me get into guys burps even though i find them pretty gross even now so over the course of a relationship stuff can change and she may get into it so much can change the closer and closer you get but going into a relationship expecting stuff instantly is obviously gonna make people act more rude towards it due to yeah the taboo thats kinda my cope on your problem
It was mainly the method to see random burps irl that made me go yeah no thats creepy