Hii! Just had this on my mind and I wanna see if anyone else experienced something similar?
Originally back then I accepted a bunch of messages I received and absolutely refused to see anything, I just wanted purely audios since i never was looking for a relationship or anything etc. But nowadays, I’ve slowed down and I only like to indulge if I like talking to someone, or if I like how someone may look.
Other than that I’m not really a fan of talking to just anyone, especially if it’s about hearing burps. Maybe it’s also cause I’ve found my specific “niche” and how I like to enjoy burps/a specific flavor. I would notice this especially when being turned off by mainly seeing tons of stuff that isn’t my cup of tea, but to realize I think I’ve geared/fully locked in to how I enjoy it, which is “not just the burp itself”, I genuinely enjoy it only now depending on who does it, cause now (for some reason) to me, it’s like the equivalent of a singular body part with NOTHING else attached JUST because said part is attractive XD
All of this is part of why I’ll be happy to create lots of stories and such of my own.
I think I’m something similar. Back in the day it was amazing to just hear anything at all, but I increasingly care more about the context. Who is doing it, where are they, what are they doing, stuff like that.
It’s similar to any other conventionally attractive sexual thing now for me. A picture of a good pair of boobs can be a turn on without more context if I want it to be, but I don’t get a boner every time I walk past an attractive woman at the store. But also in public, if I hear it I’m definitely aware of it, and I think the self-consciousness kills any potential turn on it would have had lmao.
But as to the rest of your point, too, I’ve found that with the partners I’ve told about it, the effort alone is more attractive than I could have imagined. None of them have been objectively that good at it, but the person being open to it and doing it solely for my sake because they know I like it… That feeling means a lot to me emotionally but also sexually, and I find it more attractive than the actual end result itself
In general my sexuality/interests have shifted over the years. I actually used to be attracted to women but now I’m only into other guys. Also, in the past I really wasn’t into being teased or degradation but now I like it (to a degree, in certain contexts, like being called a gross pervert).