i kinda get jelly when i see ppl in some forums sharing their experiences w/ other ppl , like never in a million years can i see myself being able to tell somebody especially somebody i love that burps get me off T_T idk how ppl do it , and even afterwards if they r okay w/ it idk where to go from there . i think also it feels harder because im a girl , i feel id get more shamed for those things due to that and also like idm burping for a guy whose into it , but id mainly want him to do that … ??
like i have a yt channel where i post my burps and stuff and i love to burp but i like the other way around a lot more and i dont think many guys would be willing to be burping rather then the other way around since i know thats more common :,) i feel like my kink is something i will take to the grave lol
I definitely think that the average guy would be more willing to be ok with/play into a woman’s burp fetish, more so than the other way around. It’s widely more accepted for guys to burp out loud and be open about it. I think you would be surprised!
Just go ahead & do it. I really don’t think burping is that big of a deal. If you aren’t comfortable around someone you love, it’ll be tougher to discuss other things you care about.
But ey, I’m just an internet stranger that might be contextually unaware of your situation. But consider giving it a try or hinting at it
I never thought I would tell anyone about it. I assumed it would be a secret I would harbour for the rest of my life. Until one day, I was with my 1st girlfriend and she had an upset stomach. She grabbed a gingerale and sat down and started uncontrollably burping. I couldnt help but say something. She eventually caught on that i liked it and after that, always made sure to please me. After her, it became easier eith each girl I dated. Now its one of the 1st things i mention when i start seeing someone new. Believe me, its not as bad as it seems. I have yet to encounter a negative reaction from admitting it and ive probably told like 15 girls now. My current girlfriend does it all the time for me now. Long story short…just do it! :)
ahhh you’re very lucky then your honestly abt it is impressive , i don’t think id ever be able to get to that point but this is definitely reassuring me to try more lol ^^
Seems like everyone else is saying about the same thing I would which is to just go for it. I brought it up with my current girlfriend and she was super cool with it. She even mentioned that she was glad because she’d been holding them back around me the whole time!
I definitely think that at the very least it’s worth bringing up since trying to keep it a secret would eat up on you, and you’d probably be a lot happier in general being with a partner you feel more comfortable around.
I’m also a girl (but a lesbian so a lil different) and I’m going to second what some of the other posters have said. I’m pretty up front about the fetish with my potential partners and also just my friends, and being able to get that out of the way upfront has made it easy to meet people who are willing or even excited to play with my fetish. With my girlfriend, I told her about the fetish in the twelfth text I ever sent her. Never had anyone be scared away and, if eventually someone is, it’s for the best (but I luckily don’t have to worry about that now because I’m so happy with my girlfriend). I think it just gets harder the longer you wait to bring it up to someone you’re seeing, so I think you should try to be upfront about it.
I remember reading a post from a woman on another kink site (centered more around stuffing and weight gain) that very much resonated with me. It went something like this:
“love when I’m being intimate with a normal ass vanilla straight guy and after telling him about this fetish he’s like ‘sounds hot I’m down’. I can’t believe I carried shame about this for years wtf”
and as a guy, my experience is similar to other folks commenting here. I could speculate reasons why folks might respond worse to gals sharing their kinks vs guys, but I could also speculate reasons for it to be the other way around. Not sure if there’s much significant difference ! ¯_(ツ)_/¯
i’ve told like 5-10 different women i casually dated and not a single one ever judged me… every single one of them started burping around me after i told them. it’s really not that deep lol
I don’t think that would be the case at all, I don’t know your context though, but if a woman asked me to do something like that for her I wouldn’t hesitate at all, I don’t think a man would feel like embarrassed by it.
My gf burps a lot naturally, and at some point I started “joking” about it being attractive and I’d be extra affectionate after she burped. Eventually she noticed that I’d get hard every time and realized that it wasn’t a joke lol. So she knew before I officially told her. Maybe not the best way to go about communicating this but it was much easier for me do this than work myself up to confessing. Essentially I eased her into it.
I finally did tell her for real after a while, but at that point she already basically knew. Now that she knows, she burps even more and they are super loud too. She’s not very good at burping on command and she seems uncomfortable with the idea. She’ll burp during sex if she naturally has too (which happens like 1/3 times) but she seems unwilling to really fully indulge me. If I ask her to burp on command in intimate scenarios she will do one or two little ones and stop. Overall though, I’m glad she knows. She burps way more now, never suppresses them around me, and is more comfortable burping in public. Yesterday we just walked around town eating at different restaurants and she burped dozens of times, about ten of them were loud enough that other people heard which is a huge turn on for me.
I’ll be honest, I was about 24 when I told a sexual partner about my fetish for the first time. And it was nerve wracking every other time too, but definitely worth it. I can’t imagine a dude not wanting to burp for you.
