I used to share a flat with this girl named Tanja who is 4 years older than me for about 3 years from 2020 to 2023. We have texted sporadically since and hung out a few days ago for the first time since we no longer live together. What you must know about me is that I have a fart fetish on top of a burp fetish and am more into farts overall than burps. I enjoy hearing girls fart or burp but also enjoy farting or burping in front of them.
Tanja is very good at cooking a bean soup which is a family tradition of hers. Back when we were living together we ate it once or twice but nothing ever happened in terms of gas. Back than I was also too shy to fart in front of anyone but things have since changed. I told her about when I farted in front of the new roommate (who replaced her) and she took it really well, laughed about it and we joked a few times about gas that comes with eating bean soup in general.
Eventually I told her via text: ‘I would probably have no problem farting in front of you, honestly’. To which she replied: ‘Well it’s a natural thing, why should you be embarassed?’ When we hung out, she kinda agreed to make that bean soup again and invite me over at her place.
I’m wondering if I should do something about this now that I know she seems ok with farts and even jokes about them. If the soup gives me gas, I’m 50-50 on farting first because it will be at her place so I don’t want it to seem impolite especially if it ends up stinking. At the same time, I don’t think she would react badly to me doing it, at least I hope not. I also don’t think she will fart, at least not on purpose.
How would you deal with this situation? When we hung out, I didn’t fart and neither did she, I also didn’t mention farts.