I’m curious. Does anyone else have a general humiliation fetish? Very wide spectrum here. I’m actually not sure if part of what I’m into can be considered “humiliation”.
I don’t know exactly how my desire to be humiliated started. The earliest memory I have is being a kid and given a dress to wear for a family wedding. When I came downstairs my family members all went “awww! look how cute she is!” and I vividly remember my face turning red and wanting to run away.
When I started being sexually active, I would like to think about boys looking up my skirt. I was into general perversion like knowing people were staring at my boobs or ass. I would act like it was “bad” but deep down I liked it, which sometimes made/makes me worried about what that means because it sounds a bit awkward when I put it like that, but I think as long as I’m straightforward about it ahead of time it’s fine.
(part of the reason why I ended up loving anime so much. that shit is uncompromisingly horny and perverted as fuck.)
like, the simple act of bending over without panties makes me flush really hard. the idea of being open and “vulnerable” in a humiliating way turns me on a lot. I love being in compromising positions.
the burps and farts aspects came into play later when I had an ex who was into it. I was always made fun of in my friend groups for burping and farting so loud. I suppose when I met someone who was into it my humiliation fetish started to get tangled up in it as I realized I could turn someone on like that.
I do its a very weird form its a thing that comes from my anxiety disorder cause when im being teased i get a fuzzy feeling in my stomach thats the same when im anxious and it like feels really nice also to be teased or humiliated to the point of tears when like being called out for somthing wrong you’ve done i think that shaped it for me a bit cause that happened alot when i was younger or like ego ruining like psychological torture kinda stuff
Teasing about body is also nice im very short and petite so being teased for how small/non existent my boobs are is cool and stuff cause it’s like a corny thing where i respond quite hostility to it but do sorta like it but i wouldn’t say im always into it when it happens its a time and place when in the mood kinda thing like not just anyone
In terms of like burping or farting stuff being tied to a chair and being stuffed full of food to the point you’re only able to let them out and being super full and vulnerable is cool also being teased for how much you ate and belly poking i think s and m stuff is kinda interesting with this fetish
Alot of my views on humiliation stuff was shaped by those bully revenge manwhas cause they do some creative punishments that seem interesting to be on the receiving end of
As someone who’s not into burping myself but is really into partners burping, I find that humiliation can still have an important role in my sexuality, but different from y’all’s. I’ve dealt with a lot of internalized shame around my fetish which kept me from exploring my sexuality with other people for most of my life. And when I finally started to explore my fetish with other people, digging into and incorporating that shame has been an interesting element.
The first time I had someone burp for me was with a friend (/FWB) in VR who knew about my fetish and just kept burping at me to see my reaction. And now with my girlfriend, her trying to get a reaction out of me, to see me get embarassed or overhwlmed, is a big part of the play we do.
And it’s something that feels suprisingly absent from how people talk about this fetish here and represent it in art! There’s so much focus on the burper but the experience of witnessing and being witnessed as a spectator is mostly ignored and I think there’s something very hot about being called out for how much I both enjoy and simultaneously am embarassed by my own perversion.
I struggled for a long time with this feeling that I didn’t know how I could fit into this fetish when I only engaged with it as an invisible spectator for so long and I’d love to see more representation of what it’s like to have someone present and the excitement of being seen and called out.