i thought if there was any place to talk about this it would be here! i’ve lurked on this forum for a while now, but i only just got the courage to make an account. i think everyone on here is much braver than i am because i still feel ashamed of myself every time i think about it. i don’t really know what i’m even looking for… reassurance? guidance? solid material? i don’t know. i think i would die if my friends found out about this… i guess i just want people to talk to me about it. i’d appreciate any and all replies. for reference i’m a girl and i like to hear people burp. i don’t like doing it myself.
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It’s not really something to be ashamed about, it’s not like you can help it. Everybody enjoys different things and this is far from the weirdest or worst things you can be into. Explore it, enjoy it, there are plenty of people put there who are happy to accommodate their partners free of judgement.
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I was ashamed, scared of my family discovering it, I even denied it for years…until I accepted it. It’s ok. You’re attracted to this stuff, it’s part of what makes you…you. I concur with the person above: explore it, talk to more people about it. Don’t be ashamed of your interest. Embrace it.
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What Jackal said ^
There are way weirder things out there, burping is very tame. It’s nothing to be ashamed of and I think you’d be surprised how many people would be willing to explore it with you.
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everyone has been so nice :)) it really makes me feel a lot better <3
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Since you’re a lurker, welcome. Glad you finally decided to take the leap. What types of threads have been your favorite? I understand the shame and embarrassment, but people are into weird shit. This isn’t even that weird, all things considered… The only problem I’ve run into after disclosing my fetish to someone has been that they can’t burp.
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they can’t burp?! that’s crazy- i wish i had that problem…
i lurked a bunch on just like day-to-day life type threads. what people enjoy, various stories, people talking about situations with their partners. i think i’m a little picky when it come to what i enjoy so that’s been a bit of a journey as well (trying to find the right sound)
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No you don’t. It’s super painful. I burp a lot also and it hurts so much when they get stuck. I can’t imagine never having relief.
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do you tend to burp a lot like when you’re eating?
oh hey I’m just like you!! I’m also a girl who likes male burps but I hate burping lol. and I also struggled with shame surrounding my kinks for a long, long time. I still do to some degree, and it’s not like I go around telling everybody, but I’ve come to grips with it I guess. I think telling someone I was comfortable with (my first ltr) actually helped me start to accept that side of myself, because I built it up to be such a horrible thing but it turned out to not be such a big deal at all. that’s all the experience I really have so far concerning irl though, it would still take a great deal of trust for me to tell another person. just wanted to say you’re not alone! :з
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welcome to the lifestyle kid haha
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I’m glad you found the courage to talk about it. Having fetishes is completely normal and nobody should feel ashamed of them as long as you’re ethical about them. In my experience seeing that Im not alone and exploring the community helped me a lot with my confidence, hope you manage to have a nice time on here despite the occasional problems we have on the forums
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Never be ashamed! Enjoy it and have fun.
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Yeah, especially after I eat. Or drink anything, even water. Or don’t eat sometimes. I’m just burpy as hell. A fetishist’s dream. A little inconvenient and embarrassing for me at times for sure, but I think burping is fun(ny).
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A lot of people feel a sense of insecurity about this fetish. You will notice people that come and go, deleting and re-establishing their various online profiles. I used to be one of these back in the days when Yahoo groups were a thing. I would create an account, join all these groups focused on burping, then removing my accounts over and over again. It crazy being attracted to something that others find gross , funny, or weird.
I will just never forget finding others with this attraction to burping for the first time years ago. I was so glad my fetish was no longer as weird as I thought. It was more common than I ever imagined. I no longer felt like a freak.
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In the grand scheme of things, it’s a pretty innocent kink. It’s not dangerous or concerning in the way some extreme BDSM kinks are. That part has become more clear to me in recent years.
Weird? Sure, maybe, just like every kink. But truly not really “bad” in any way. I also struggle with feeling super embarrassed about it, but whenever I manage to get over it and tell someone new, the response every time has been “oh that’s not that weird, sure.” Like others have said in this thread, you might be surprised at what others are willing to do for your sake if they like you.
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I feel you on the shame, but I promise it is mostly caused by your own insecurities or stresses. Like other have said, it’s a pretty harmless fetish, and most people who aren’t chronically online losers wouldn’t judge you for it
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