i thought if there was any place to talk about this it would be here! i’ve lurked on this forum for a while now, but i only just got the courage to make an account. i think everyone on here is much braver than i am because i still feel ashamed of myself every time i think about it. i don’t really know what i’m even looking for… reassurance? guidance? solid material? i don’t know. i think i would die if my friends found out about this… i guess i just want people to talk to me about it. i’d appreciate any and all replies. for reference i’m a girl and i like to hear people burp. i don’t like doing it myself.
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I can’t speak for everyone but I too feel shame most of the time having this kink and would rather die than to tell my family and friends about it with the exception only both my ex’s knowing about it. For me this is the only place where there are others like me with this kink and can speak freely about it with no kink shame to be uttered once
I can’t tell you to not feel ashamed of the kink since it’s primarily normal but no need to be ashamed with us even if you lurk around and about
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There’s way worse things to get turned on by!
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You don’t have to worry about your friends finding out…just don’t tell them. It’s okay to have secrets everyone has them. As for partners, speaking from experience, along with many stories you might’ve read on this forum, plenty of people will be willing to indulge in your fetish without judgement. After all, there are much worse things you could be attracted to.
I can feel your pain, in fact I dare say most of us can!! The age I am when I first discovered I had the fetish it was pre-internet so I felt even more weird about it as I had no clue others did too, it was only when I become an adult and the internet was around I discovered I wasn’t alone. I feel constantly ashamed by it and I’ve never told anyone I have the fetish. Really though there is no reason we should, you’ve only got to look at a website like clips4sale (though I recommend you never actually buy a clip from there) to see the many bizarre fetishes around. We should just see ourselves as normal but unique, and perhaps even be a little bit proud because we aren’t just rolling with the masses.
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It doesn’t harm anyone and it’s not that gross compared to a lot of other kinks. Those two things alone helped me become a lot more comfortable with it. As others said, just don’t tell your friends, there’s no reason they need to know, but if you have a partner I would really consider telling them. Quite a few years ago at this point I decided I was going to tell my partners from now on and it’s been a good decision, even though none of them have really been able to do it much yet. It makes me feel less nervous and weird about it, if nothing else.
Its important to accept yourself as you are. You dont need to justify it as long as its something that doesnt hurt yourselves or others you can literally do whatever you want.
I feel you, I discovered my burp fetish at 16 (that’s when I realised it affected me sexually)
Even to this day I still get embarrassed about it sometimes, not many people know about it because I’m afraid of being judged and stuff.
But my partner knows, he doesn’t have the burping fetish and he himself doesn’t like it but he knows I do and he uses it sometimes during intimacy and for me that’s really hot and it shows how much he loves me.
But there are worse things than burps out there that turn people on and that’s what I try to remember when I feel bad about it.
It’s part of who I am and I’ve accepted it over the years.
I love hearing someone burp especially if it’s on command, I love the inhale technique the most over the swallowing method.
if you ever wanna talk just message me 
I’m happy to talk about it