i wanna have some advices

Burp Discussion
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i’m an Italian guy and here in Italy girls usually are soooo feminine, they would not burp at all because of family manners, etc… I have a couple of questions for you guys and girls… I discovered this burp fetish since I remember (since 7 maybe), now I’m 21. I cannot hide it in a relationship, it turns me on and.. that’s odd to say but.. that’s the first thing that I look for in a girl (only when I’m satisfied I start looking for her personality, etc…), but I know that burping should always come in second place. Especially at first I look a lot for it, demanding it (not small ones or like.. only 1-2 in a day), when we know each others for like 3-4 months and I kinda “know” she burps well I get kinda “““““bored””””” about it (I still like it a lot, only I don’t demand for it, but I like a lot if she does it surprising me). I wanted to ask you… is it normal that I like it sooo much? like.. I would not fit in a relationship if I cannot talk o listen her about it.

it would be better if I force myself to know a person before and then tell her this kink? I know it would be better.. but… how would you do if you like this kink so much?

i also find that if a girl talks about it in a certain way and often.. it turns me on. maybe because I feel like.. understood (?)

let me know and thanks for your attention!! I hope this post will help me and guys/girls like me w this strong passion for burps :slight_smile:

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I’d be lying If I said the ability/willingness to burp wasn’t an important thing that I look for in a partner. I know it’s not particularly healthy or proactive to prioritize it when getting to know someone but I can’t help but shake that thought.

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I would recommend asking her what she is into first. When comfortable, go as far as to ask if she has any fetishes. It’s okay to wait until the appropriate time. But, afterwards, she will no doubt ask you. Give her permission to react honestly. The response won’t necessarily be positive, but at least she knows you respect her, and she will respect your honest and patience.

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I don’t think anyone should have any shame about looking for sexual compatibility with someone and for us, a partner being able to burp is part of that. Whether it should be the primary thing or not is more complicated, but my fetish is something I’ve lead with when I was dating more casually since it was important for what I was looking for. I don’t think there’s a right order to do things but the common knowledge here is to wait to tell partners until you’re really comfortable and I encourage the opposite. There’s nothing wrong with being up front about what you’re looking for.

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I speak fluent Italian, feel free to message me privately if you want.