I really want to try to understand the burping fetish as best I can from your guys perspective but in many ways it is very difficult to imagine. I have been thinking a lot about certain aspects of the fetish and particularly the psychological reasoning or differences there maybe between someone without the fetish and someone who has it. So really I am just going to put pen to paper as it is and put my thoughts out there in the hopes of some more interesting and valuable insight.
If my boyfriend and other people Iâve talked to about it are anything to go by, seeing or hearing someone burp can be extremely âstimulatingâ for someone with the fetish. I donât really have much to compare it to because thereâs really not much anyone could do around me that would be able to have that same intense arousal effect on me without me knowing it was a sexual thing⌠And generally the only time I can have such intense arousal is by watching porn or foreplay/sex with someone.
I feel like if I had a fetish like burping or some other bodily function that was spontaneous, out of my control, and something that people just naturally did in public without them having the slightest idea that their completely non sexual action was completely sexual to me and had a strong arousal effect, that I would feel somewhat overwhelmed, even anxious or embarrassed at myself despite naturally reacting that way. In a way it takes all the control away from myself and puts it in the hands of someone else, potentially a stranger even. Do you ever worry that someone might find out about your fetish and somehow use it against you? I mean they would have to be an ass hole, but there are plenty of those kind of people out there. The power to illicit an arousal response in someone by doing something as simple as burping around them seems like it could be a nightmare in the wrong hands, I can see why most people keep it as one of their most closely guarded secrets.
But at the same time I can see how in any case it must be an irresistible thing to be around when it happens, what kind of thoughts and feelings come over you when one of your friends does a burp you find really arousing, or what if itâs a stranger? Is it always a good feeling or can it be negative? Does it feel completely natural to you or is there an acute awareness that it isnât quiet the usual response most people would expect? I mean, does it make you think about sex in a somewhat usual sort of way? Or is it compartmentalised so that rather than arousing you in preparation for sex, it is more just like an all encompassing thing that just makes you aroused solely for the idea or thought that you just want to see more burping, which just feeds again into more arousal, then more thoughts about burping etc etc. Does it have much effect on what would be considered the usual sexual response? Do the usual things about sex and other peoples sexuality still have the usual sort of arousal effect? If so, if you had to choose between having sex with your dream partner without any burping OR watch your dream partner do your dream burps in front of you while you masturbated?
One thing that strikes me about the burp fetish is the arousal stems almost completely from the act of burping, usually mostly the sound, rather than any personal or human sort of interaction, but donât get me wrong I understand having a personal connection with the person or more interaction with them as they burp can also increase the arousal so I am not at all trying to make out you are some kind of robots lol. It is just kind of interesting and cool that just hearing a burp you like can be enough to get to climax in some cases. Which makes me wonder what kind of thoughts, ideas and feelings come over you as you get aroused by burping. I guess for me when I am aroused I think a lot about the person, or how I feel about them, my emotions can play a large roll even if the input from my senses is 100% to my liking. But I get the general idea that sensory input, particularly audio, when you hear a burp plays a pivotal role in maintaining and increasing that arousal for you guys. Is there any particular thought, idea or sensory input that you need to concentrate on as you masturbate to burps? Or is the reaction so intense that without even concentrating on anything in particular your body simply reacts kind of independently of your conscious thoughts? When I put some of these questions to my boyfriend one of the things he mentioned was âHaving a burp fetish is like having a button he can press whenever he wants that is able to bring him to climax faster than anything else ever could.â To him it seems that his arousal response to burping is completely independent of his other sexual feelings and love towards me or anyone else for that matter, itâs just as if he has this super power that essentially means he doesnât require anything actually considered sexual to be able to have what he claims is a better orgasm than anything else ever could, including sex. And I am kind of envious of that, because sex, arousal, getting to climax for me is not what I would consider easy or simple, or at all guaranteed under any circumstance.
One thing I find comfort in is knowing that to him, and I presume many others with this fetish, when he watches burping videos or when another girl burps around him I know that from a sexual perspective the only thing he is interested in is the burping, I am even comfortable watching burping videos or talking about burps he likes with him as it also helps me understand him and his fetish better as well as makes him happy.
I try to put myself in your guys shoes and just try to imagine what it would be like or how different my perspective on life, relationships/friendships, my outlook on sex would be, and what it would really be like to be aroused by burping. But it is exceptionally difficult to get much of a sense of what it would be like at all as it seems to be almost completely subjective at itâs core. The only thing that I keep thinking about is what the world would be like if everyone had a burping fetish, and surprisingly this idea seemed to give me a brief glimpse of insight into what I can imagine your perspective might kind of be like. Just imagining this seemingly mundane bodily function which is usually considered slightly gross or impolite as something that everyone viewed as overtly sexual almost turned my brain inside out. I mean how crazy would that be lol, if everyone had to deal with being aroused in public, potentially by strangers or their close friends every time they heard someone burp the entire sexual dynamic of the human race would be completely different. So I when I try to think about it and understand what it must be like from your perspective. Although most of you keep it a secret from all but your sexual partners, just the simple idea of burping being a sexual thing, something you guys have dealt with your entire lives, to me seems like a completely different world, a completely different experience, something that to most people would just seem completely ridiculous, to the point that if I didnât know any better and someone tried to tell me that there was even 1 person in the world that I could make orgasm simply by burping in their face, I would surely think they were being stupid. But its even so different from a non burp fetish persons perspective that I doubt anyone would even be able to come up with such an idea independently of actually meeting someone with the fetish or being told by someone about it. I would go as far as to say that if you asked someone to guess as many fetishes as they could (without help from google) burping would be somewhere way way way down the list, despite the fact that as far as fetishes go it is definitely one of the better ones from what I have learned. Like honestly to me you guys hit the jackpot with this, especially considering how rare it is. I would give anything to have a fetish like this, itâs like you have access to something extra and extremely rewarding that 99.99% of people couldnât even imagine. It really is remarkable. And I know to you guys it just seems normal, and just as I could never imagine what it would be like to have it, you can never really know what it would be like to not. In my case, and the case of everyone else itâs a classic case of âYou can never miss what you have never hadâ but trust me, you are the lucky ones, imagine not having your burping fetish for a few moments if you can⌠See how very drab life seems⌠Yeah well thatâs how it is for most hahaha, I get the feeling that it would be like seeing in colour all your life and then suddenly without your super power fetish everything would seem black and white in some sense. I have seen some posts here and there about people not being happy about having this fetish, even as far as wanting to get rid of it, and though of course I understand how complex it must be to figure out or how you may feel isolated, weird or different because of it. You should see it how I have come to see it, as a miraculous gift. It doesnât make you weird or different in a bad way, it makes you actually special and actually unique. A marvel of the human psyche. And I donât believe this is something that can be learned, taught or even conditioned, itâs just too complex and to me it seems like it requires a fair bit of upgraded hardwiring in the brain so most likely you are probably just born with it and will die with it. No one can take it from you and no one can claim to award it to themselves. That alone should encourage you to embrace it.
Lastly I really wonder a lot about your senses of hearing, or at least how your brains process certain sounds (namely burping). As I understand it, the sense of hearing is not commonly associated majorly with the sense of arousal. More commonly the visual sense and the sense of touch are the main ways which people seem to take in and interpret their sense of arousal with the outside world. I suspect only a minority slice of fetishes use sound as the major focus of their arousal. And even as far as fetishes go I have been very intrigued and struck at how big of a role hearing and the sound of the burp plays for you guys. I suspect your senses of hearing are more acute and finely tuned than most peopleâs, the way my boyfriend put it he is able to zero in on certain sounds within a burp, what to me just sounds like a loud and fleeting bunch of noise I forget as soon as it passes me lips, to him and I suspect to most of you is multi dimensional, layered, perhaps even offering some sort of insight. One of the things that I found most interesting and cool is that it is extremely obvious to you guys that no 2 burps would ever be the same, even from the same person. And even more interesting is the fact that some of you claim to be able to easily identify someone you know just by hearing them burp, despite the fact that each one of their burps is apparently easily identifiable as unique. This revelation doesnât seem to be much of a big deal to you guys, in fact it came as a surprise to my boyfriend when I explained to him that most burps sound a like to me, especially my own burps haha picking up on the slight variations of peoples burping is not a skill most people have, and to learn it would be fairly challenging considering most burps last less than 3 seconds and are then never heard again. I feel like it would take a life time of listening to every burp from every possible person you meet as often as possible to even begin to build up any sort of reference points or gain any sort of understanding of the acoustics any particular persons burping to be able to hear burping on the same level that you consider normal. When I think about it I couldnât even begin to imagine what a good burp sounds like to you, sure it must sound vastly different to what I am able to hear. It must be something really quiet out of this world to be able to hear something in such a way that it literally makes you want to orgasm, surely it is absolutely incredible. I would be very interested if any of you could even give me a slightest bit of insight into that aspect of the fetish because at itâs core that seems to be what drives the arousal response and is the bridge between the act of burping and your minds, and it is the thing which I think sets you apart from not only normal people but basically every other fetish and it really is completely subjective in that sense, i could listen to what you consider the greatest most arousing burp in the universe for an eternity on repeat and I would still be no closer to being able to share in that experience.
I hope some of you will find the time to read my thoughts and even give some insights and replies of your own. My entire perspective on this is only what I have been able to glean from this forum, the people I have talked to on here and my boyfriend (he is kind of useless when it comes to this sort of thing haha). So forgive me if I am totally wrong or off base about anything, please do correct me and give your ideas and opinions on the subject. At the end of the day, even with help from you guys, the mysteries of this fetish will remain uncovered until someone in the medical profession decides it is a subject worth spending their life researching and is able to find willing subjects with the fetish to aid them. I do not tend to believe the ideas of the Freudian psychology that seems to be pervasive still when it comes to ideas about fetishes, I do not believe for a second that you could develop such a complex fetish that has clear neurological and sensory involvement because of some out dated idea that your mother burped a lot when she was pregnant or when you were a baby, or that burping had anything at all to do with it. If it were so simple having a burping fetish would be endemic considering the rate at which pregnant women tend to burp. I am more inclined to believe its something biological, perhaps by coincidence or by some obscure set of circumstances during brain development. To me it seems much more like a sub set of sexual orientation, no one chooses it, we canât change it, and it most likely is part of natural human variation, itâs just extremely rare for whatever reason but as this community demonstrates it is clearly a condition shared by many people across the world, and from what I can tell there isnât any obvious shared causal links between you all, no obvious shared conditioning, itâs not distinct to a certain culture or environment, it seems to present in some non sexual but major way at a very early age for most, it can present in men or women and alongside any other sexual orientation or for some even other fetishes that may or may not be even slightly related to burping, and I believe any attempt to be rid of it completely would be like severing a limb. But it definitely warrants some serious research.
And I know to you all this must just seem like a normal thing, something you donât really even think so deeply about. You may even think my questions and ideas are pointless and boring, not worthy of discussion, and that is fine. But for me as an outsider coming in, it is much deeper, complex and interesting that I ever imagined. When I first came here I thought I would be the one who had something to offer the community, but I have realised that this community actually has a lot more to offer me than I could ever offer.
I apologise if my punctuation or paragraphing is bad, never really been good at that. And if you have taken the time to read this, thank you.