I believe it is fairly recent term so it’s not surprising that it is something most people never heard of it. And if we are keeping it real, we very much actively do this.
We do this unconsciously and consciously.
Speak for yourself. I think there is a big difference between actively seeking out people and asking them to do stuff like that and silently enjoying stuff. But yes, some people that share our fetish do stuff like this and it’s a real shame.
I mean, most people probably don’t want to be the target of a kink community but there could be someone fantisizing about any of us doing whatever right now and there is no way to know it or stop it and people should be free to do whatever they want in their own mind at least.
I never said those things were the same nor from what I read that’s what they were implying. Fetish mining is exactly what they said, asking people to do things without acknowledging it is contributing to a fetish.
Take that information however you want to take it,
this conversation comes up in these forums quite often
My god that is actually fucking disgusting