I’ve been an occasional poster for several years, but never written about this aspect of the fetish. I’ve seen some discussion around this but figured I’d start a thread for it.
I’ve never been able to make myself burp. Every once in a while I’ll have a really small natural burp that offers some relief, but I’m usually bloated and occasionally nauseous from trapped air. Sometimes I’ll hiccup but it doesn’t always make me feel better. I don’t drink alcohol very often as a result because when I do, I get bloated quickly and end up getting sick more often than I’d like.
I’ve had the fetish since I was 7 or 8, and like most people I found out by watching girls burp in cartoons or in person. I could never really pinpoint what I enjoyed the most about it, but I knew it was something I liked. As I got older, I became more aware that burping was something that was difficult, if not impossible for me to do. Having watched tons of belching tutorials by people like Emma Graves, Bailee Bob’s Boneyard and Sierra Dallas, and having read several posts on the old forum by folks like Phantom, I’d never been able to teach myself how to burp.
A few years ago, I got comfortable enough with an ex to tell her about my fetish, and she was very understanding and willing to burp for me. She learned to do small on command burps, but she did best with soda or sparkling water. On average her burps were okay, but every once in a while she’d let loose a really deep, bassy belch that would even surprise herself. It wasn’t something you expected to hear coming from such a small girl. Knowing that a girl was in front of me, doing something generally considered manly and socially unacceptable, something that I’m incapable of doing myself, and yet she’s able to do it better than some of my male friends was a huge turn on.
She once told me story about how she was drinking soda on her porch, and when she needed to belch, she burped so loud that the guys working in the garage across the street said “atta boy, do it again!” Not realizing she was a chick. Thinking about stories like that while knowing that I can’t burp myself are certainly a turn on for me.
Does anyone else deal with no-burp and have the fetish? What are your experiences like?
This is basically the situation I’m in, but over the years I’ve learned how to force the burp out a bit, but it still feels like a really involved process and the relief is pretty minimal.
Had an ex who used to burp all the time even before I told her about the fetish. Soon after I told her, she told me she wanted to hear me burp and I had to explain the whole situation. I think she was more confused than disappointed. Lol.
To be honest, I’m not sure which came first for me, developing the fetish or realizing I wasn’t able to burp. I also haven’t thrown up since I was at least 3, which also seems to be common with other “no burp” folk.
I can relate to having to explain why you can’t burp to an ex, I think most people just find it a bit confusing like you said.
The one thing that has helped me a bit in learning how to relax that muscle in your throat is smoking ahem perfectly legal hemp flower out of a bong. I find that I take in a little bit of air when I pull, so I’ve been practicing exhaling through my mouth while relaxing the base of my throat. Sometimes that will trigger a gag reflex that feels like an air vomit, but I do feel much better afterwards. I can’t do this consistently yet, but like you said it does seem to be something you could learn to do over time.
I’ve got it as well, had the fetish for as long as I can remember! I’m actually going to go in for the procedure in a couple months, but that’s unrelated.
I’m fairly confident that the fetish developed, at least partially, due to the fact that I saw burping as something unattainable, and thus exciting. It made me very uncomfortable whenever I had to burp but couldn’t, and so I guess the relief is like living vicariously through someone else, and at some point along the way it became intertwined with sexuality. I’m not really sure, but I’m sure there are a lot of other people in our position.
I don’t have this, however, as an infant I was extremely collicky and struggled to burp. In childhood I had bad acid reflux and bloating problems related to food intolerance, and so I taught myself to burp on command out of desperation for relief. I sometimes wonder if this feeling of physical relief became associated with sexual satisfaction at a key point in my development.
I think it makes sense that a portion of the noburp folks would have the fetish, or at least a fixation on burping, because they’re the only ones who think out burping as much as we do, and probably the only “community” in which burping is as normalized and obsessed over as it is here! The joy that noburpers have when they burp is so charming to me, again it is reminiscent of how people with the fetish react even if it isn’t sexual for the noburpers.