If you’re a guy and into women, you’re either blind or you’ve noticed that since OF it’s impossible to find a like-minded girl to share this fetish with. I remember the days of the old forum where it was actually possible to meet and chat with women who were legit into burping and liked to chat with guys with their only reward being attentions and sexual gratification.
OF ruined this, and I’ve noticed that it did it in every fetish: Now any woman who’s into it, and any woman who stumbles upon it and thinks we’re disgusting freaks, thinks to herself “hey, I can make some money selling them contents!”
If they’re into it, they get all the attentions and sexual gratification while also getting money off it, why do anything for free if you can charge for it? I wouldn’t even breathe for free if I could get paid for every breath I take.
I think it’s kinda sad, and I think it’s kinda offensive toward any of us who are into a fetish to be seen as nothing more than weird and freaky moneybags. I’m ready to get hate from all the women in here as well as from every simp to gives away half of their salary to them, but I’m right and I can’t pretend I’m not.
you’re crying about not getting as much free shit anymore? Boohoo. Its still plenty out there
I agree with you 200% on this. I’m not certain whether it’s onlyfans exclusively, but I’ve definitely noticed that whatever kink you let a female know you’re into, they immediately mention compensation if u wanna continue indulging in that kind. Some even require money to take up their time just speaking on the subject. There’s a female that’s my friend on TikTok, and one night I entered her LIVE. Some female in the comments saw me and my female TikTok friend communicating and replied to me that ( hey u missed it, she just queefed) So I replied by asking the host ( my friend) is that true, u know how to queef? She replied… hell yeah, I know how to make this pussy fart, but I don’t do it for free. It’s like, u can’t discuss and share fetishes anymore without them trying to drain your wallet.
there’s more free content in a single month now than we had in entire years before.
I don’t think they’re so judgemental, at worst just kind of shrugging and thinking about it as another source of income.
It’s true that onlyfans has completely changed how porn sites work though. Just the fact that there’s no internal discovery (ability to search etc) on onlyfans means that all the models have to go out and do the advertising themselves, which is why you see them all over every site out there atm. From the onlyfans site’s perspective though that’s unlimited free advertising forever. I’m not sure if that was an intentional choice they made, but it ended up being pretty clever.
I do also understand why you wouldn’t want sites like this one to just be a spam target for sellers. One reason we set this forum up back in the day was because there wasn’t anywhere on the internet that wasn’t just some producer’s advertising page.
I didn’t interpret it like that, more like that it’s losing its legitimate social value and becoming a bit transactional and soulless.
Making money is important, and if there’s a market for a fetish, it makes sense to tap into that market. However, I have to agree that it seems like there are a lot less women out there that enjoy burping that you can just chat and hang out with. Or at least it seems that way, with how prevalent OF has become.
However, not every OF- hell, let’s go further: not every burp content maker- sees us as “freaky moneybags”. Some people think that their talent is worth some monetary value; others have bills and stuff to pay. Some might do this as a secondary job because let’s be honest, everything is getting more expensive. So let’s tone down the guilt tripping a bit there.
Women that like burping and want to share their talents without getting monetary payment do exist, they’re just harder to find for a variety of reasons, including people abusing their kindness for their own sexual satisfaction. Gotta be able to see things from multiple points of view, because nothing is truly black and white.
This part. Say it louder for the people in the back.
Isn’t it funny how this has become barely more than a place for women to advertise themselves for a quick buck? It’s not a forum anymore as far as I care
I feel like people were a bit naive back in the day. You could talk about nearly anything to anyone back in the day and nobody would suspect that the person they are talking to is a weirdo that gets off to it. Now everyone holds a new standard. Overall I think having higher standards is better.
I agree. I think OP is romanticizing a select few experiences. More often than not it was probably a one way gratification under false pretenses.
I think it’s way better now. You have infinitely more accessible, legal options at different price points. I got a $20 10 minute custom video from her:
That level of looks/quality wasn’t happening on yahoo Wild West.
I mean, I don’t think it applies to only kinks/fetishes. I feel almost everything you find a lot of people trying to make money of of it. You can argue gaming is kinda being ruined by companies either price gouging you, or people trying to be popular streamers or pro gamers. Housing turning into either a money nest for whales, or an opportunity to buy low then flip it to double the price you paid to buy plus fix, or buy homes and turn them into airbnb’s.
I personally don’t mind pay options especially now, I feel like a part of it was better back then was because I was a lot younger and talking to girls around my age I dont think there was an expectation to pay, plus things like cashapp didn’t exist so if you did pay it would pretty much involving them giving you a lot of their personal info.
But me being older, I feel the girls who would consistently do it for free or have casual conversation about burping will be those young 15-19 yr old’s and honestly… Id rather hear from those a little older than that so I’m good off of them.
I do sometimes miss talking to someone and finding out they can burp really well and they show it off to you no problem… I mean I still think that is possible, but it will just require more effort than it used to.
@aple does make a point the experience could have been one sided and they (the girls/women) did not really benefit much from it outside of some conversation because they may have been bored at the time, especially if they did not know if you had a thing for it.
To be honest, in my experience nothing is really that different. Streamers and such usually know a bit more than the average person, but the average person is as surprised as they always have been that this is a thing that exists.
I dont mind having people having an OF’s but it has gotten to the point of oversaturation especially on here im constantly seeing nearly every channel flooded with OF despite having a dedicated channel for it. This site has literally turned into a glorrified OF ad.
there’s tons of free content, and you got an imagination too, don’t need to force a girl to do what she wants with her own body
Where do you see the spam? The commercial section is supposed to be containment for anything spammy and allow people to easily mute it all if they want to. If the site still seems like it has too much spam though, we might need to do something more.
Regarding this part:
“… and thinks we’re disgusting freaks, thinks to herself ‘hey, I can make some money selling them contents!’”
It’s not like she would’ve made free content for her own sexual pleasure before OnlyFans if she thought you’re a disgusting freak.
The ones who made free content most likely had the opposite opinion lol.
The difference is that today, even those who don’t get pleasure from it have a reason to make content (thanks to the normalization of selling content and convenient platforms that allow it to happen like TikTok lives and OnlyFans).
Mostly in female media and personal have to scroll a bit but its definitely there
If you see any feel free to flag it and it’ll get moved to the right section (I move stuff myself too whenever I see it)
Will do thank you