Queer Women In Community

As a lesbian eructophile, it sometimes feels like this community assumes everyone here is male, especially in the female media category, but I know that isn’t the case, and I’d love to hear from other women who are attracted to women about their experiences with this fetish. I’m particularly interested in how your experiences might be different from the men here who are attracted to women. As a trans woman, I sometimes struggle with feeling like the fetish is an implicitly “male-coded” thing that I have to unlearn, and I think hearing other sapphic perspectives (cis or trans) would be helpful in recontextualizing it.

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Me! I’m also a lesbian, though oddly enough I’m into both male and female burps. I think it’s more the sound for me, compared to the person doing it. I have a girlfriend, but they don’t know about my fetish and I’m not sure I’ll ever tell them tbh. I don’t think they would judge me, but, it’s just something I’d rather keep to myself. Glad to see another lesbian here :slight_smile:

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I guess I’m a queer woman, I am aro ace so I feel like this fetish is just a playing card in the deck that is my life but a no useable one like the joker or the one that tell you how to play certain games. I think my gender identity was discovered through the fetish through roleplay and such. Side note whilst I am Aro Ace I mainly watch femme presenting people or animations but all genders are sources of arousal.

This isn’t directly relevant but is a bit funny. I got the fetish after discovering it existed, over a year later. It started as a joke with my friends since one of the girls burped a lot and joked it is probably a fetish. So we joined Discord servers for burp fetish stuff, and took bets “do you think it is male or female dominated”. All but one of us assumed female, assuming it’d be more tied to masculinity. But it seems more so men being attracted to women breaking the mold with femininity.

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this is queer adjacent but I would be interested to see how non cis people are into it.

most if not all fetish communities are male dominated. there could be an equal amount of women with the fetish for all we know, straight cis women just tend to be less vocal about it likely due to societal constricts

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i’m very lucky to have a partner who is understanding of the fetish and even encourages it most of the time. i have found it lonely to navigate as a lesbian and wish there was a way to connect with other lesbians/sapphic women about it. like a little group would be helpful, just to have a place to talk about it. i talk to my girlfriend about it and she doesn’t mind but sometimes i feel like i’m being weird or imposing on a conversation since she hasn’t directly admitted to having the fetish despite participating in it.

before my current relationship i had a hookup with another queer person who just so happened to be into the fetish, which was nice. but i realized i wasn’t attracted to them outside of it, which was disappointing.

but yeah, it’s just lonely as fuck, lol.

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I think actually constructing some kind of group for sapphic burp fetishists to connect in a platonic/support way would be amazing but really hard to actually do and regulate. But if anyone ever tries, I’d certainly be part of it. Definitely also wish there was more community for people like us who are in stable relationships with partners who understand the fetish.

But I think having a partner who understands and encourages your fetish without actually having it is great. For me, there’s always this fear of it being an imposition on my girlfriend and she’s always telling me that it’s not but that fear remains, so I get it, and I know that migh be different if she had an exhibitionist burp fetish. But it sounds like something you don’t need to worry about as long as you’re both happy with what you’re doing.

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