Woaw lucky you I never met someone with it and thats the first time im on this forum,
I have never spoke to someone with it even on social media
well, the common denomintor in every case where I found someone who has it, is first telling them I have the fetish. Youāve got to be honest about yourself first
Thats not an option for me like I will never do this :/
āif we want the rewards of being loved we have to submit to the mortifying ordeal of being knownā -Tim Kreider
Yeah, Iām definitely more of a spectator too. I think ideally for me it would be I like to watch them burp, they love to burp. However both of us watching each other burp just doesnāt work for me because I actually hate burping in front of anyone. Itās just something I donāt do, so that would fail
Is there a reason youāre only a spectator?
nothing all that exciting. I imagine pretty much the same as anyone else here whoās a spectator. For me, itās really hot when other women burp but I donāt really burp much (never have) and donāt like doing it, and I kind of like the contrast. Iām not a spectator in every part of my sexuality, just when it comes to burping. And when I say spectator, that can still be an active role, like pouring a soda into someoneās mouth or encouragement, rubbing, etc, but just not burping myself. itās gotten a laugh out of some people who know I have the fetish when I tell them I donāt drink carbonated drinks, which isnāt entirely about not wanting to burp, I also just donāt like the feeling of the fizz in my mouth, but that is part of it too.
Irl, shame it didnāt work out cuz we all know how rare that is.
Curious that you donāt like undergoing the act of burping! I wonder how (un)common that is here.
Im a girl and i have the fetish
I met a girl years ago who had it. She would love to hear stories about me belching, but wasnāt very good at it herself. Eventually she found someone and we stopped talking. It was kind of a long distance friendship I guess you could say.
Iāve met 2 women in real life, both off bumble who either have a burp/fart fetish, or where into vore and burps as a connective fetish. Frankly Iām shocked because I met them both around the same time after years of being on dating apps
Are you still in touch with them? Where do you live and how did you find out they had a burp and fart fetish?
not very uncommon, I remember there being a thread and some were saying burping themselves does nothing for them or they actively avoid it. I fall in with the latter
I would consider myself a spectator too. Althoughā¦I have been on the fence. Like for me to burp (or fart) in front of my significant other it would have to be really fucking special and ONLY for them if they were totally into it. Like if the love of my life wished her partner burped/farted then yeah I would do it for her. Otherwise, I abhor the idea of acknowledging when I am gassy.
Thereās supposedly a term for it - autochorissexual. When you are sexually attracted to the object of your desire as a spectator without engaging in the activity.
I feel more strongly about this with my intoxication fetish. Hate getting drunk and high. Would never get high. Not in a million years. Itās quite frustrating because some people think Iām just being lame but itās seriously a turn off for me because with the intoxication fetish thereās this āpower playā I guess you could call it where I get turned on observing someone humiliate themselves as they get drunk or stoned.
Thatās actually so cute lmaoš„²
As many others have said, they do indeed exist. Iāve spoken (via DM) to several females with this fetish which I have met through this forum over the years. They are rare like Q said; itās the way it goes for this kind of fetish.
They really do offer a unique insight into the fetish, though, so if you do get the chance to talk to them, it can be a great experience, even if itās just the odd DM.
And I would never expect to meet a female with this fetish in real life; itās simply unrealistic due to how rare the fetish is. I havenāt even met another male in real life with this fetish and never expect to, and 95% of us are males here, so finding that 5% of females is basically improbable to the point of impossible.
i donāt know how much i agree with this. i can say for a fact that a lot of women get turned on by turning other people on, and if they realize thereās an easy button they can push (burping) theyāll milk it as much as they can. iāve seen this both IRL and with streamer women who are resistant to burping at first because of their girly girl image. enough people ask and then they start burping constantly.
indulging in other peopleās fetishes isnāt equivalent to having the fetish yourself
well, true.