Too much content, lack of a comunity

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While the concept of getting off to someone without their consent is immoral on the surface, it is something that can’t be helped in regard to the internet. Most Youtubers, Twitch Streamers, and Tik Tokers have the shared goal of growing their channels in popularity(receiving more likes, follows, subs, and overall attention). They would have to understand that as they grow more popular there’s a chance that some people are bound to find them attractive and perhaps pleasure themselves based on the way they look, dress, or something they’ve done/do. Let’s be honest, this forum is primarily made up of free(non consensual) content and always has. It would cease to exist without it. Our fetish is far tamer than most to begin with.

It’s isn’t based on having to see nudity or overtly sexual behavior/activity. It’s a common bodily function. Now as far as harrassing and creeping people out i’m completely against that. This fetish is so easy to have that it really makes no sense to beg for it(which is why I don’t agree with OP’s take of there being lack of content). We could be riding public transport and witness a lady a few seats down fail to muffle a burp after sipping coffee. We could be sitting on our front porch and and the mail lady could burp right in front of us while delivering our mail. Its so simple and convenient to have. No ass, breasts, feet, lingerie, etc needed. It’s a very innocent fetish at the end of the day despite the sexual aspect our minds have put onto this otherwise normal action.

Now I will say this, sharing vids from a personal account on sites like Facebook or Instagram where the person only follows and interacts with people they know should be completey off limits(even if their name isn’t shared their face is still involved). Cause they aren’t trying to become famous. I’m only refering to accounts where the ideal goal is for popularity growth. And even then keeping names secret is heavily suggested to keep their audience clean of burp beggars. Overall as long as harrasment precautions are taken I think its okay to share burp clips from random people(as long as its not from a personal account where they only interact with friends and family).

Edit: If this were a more lude fetish(such as one involving body parts) I would agree a lot more with your take though. At the end of the day anything can be made sexual though. So there’s more than likely people getting off to even more simple things than burps such as the way a person walks or talks.

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A fetish is like entirely linked to pornography or fulfilling those deep desires we have. I don’t think it would be possible to build a burping fetish community around only sharing either:
a) Models (to pay basically)
b) Consensual non-models (rare af)
It seems you want a community centered around companionship and trust which exists here, but you also can’t exterminate the part that IS the fetish.
I also would like to add that yes while it is technically exploitation of the the women making the videos since they don’t know our true motive, i’m very sure we aren’t influencing young teens into taking advantage of women to fulfill their sexual needs.

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“i’m very sure we aren’t influencing young teens into taking advantage of women to fulfill their sexual needs.”

I am 1000% certain we are doing this. There are people on the forum right now who have done this.

“It seems you want a community centered around companionship and trust which exists here, but you also can’t exterminate the part that IS the fetish.”

I’m not against the videos themselves.

I don’t know how to put this more directly. Our behavior scares women away.

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In the make sections were channels to send audios or do calls together and burp off. The sexual compound is needed ofc, man id love to burp over a hot german stud i met on here, or do a call with a friend who sahres the content. What we cant do is be a bunch of incels creeping out desperately. Man we even invented fucking AI’s to search for burps!! This is the discord mod redditor edgelord equivalent to spy on someone with a drone!

Of course we need to be sexual, we are speaking of a fetish not a reading club, its normal to see hot guys jacking their fat cocks and chicks showing their boobs i love that! But as i long ago said, needs to be a healthy thing, a non toxic thing, sites like Burploud or this a i stuff shows how creepy we can be, stealing models vídeos, reselling, awful people who post awful minor SFW content that gets sexualized.

I do not say lets be happy and friendly in a flowerpower world,i am just saying that we need to be more human and see beyond our fantasies, we are like a bunch of horny bros and chicks that share cool experiences or ask for help to feel more safe in an untolerant and judimental world, if they see us as the club of burping discord mod incels what is people going to think?!

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I’m not sure I agree (perhaps more pratically than ethically) with your solutions, but I agree with all of your points and am glad to see someone posting this kind of discussion. I think I’ve been shifting my interests more towards animation, drawings, and gaming content, the kind of stuff made by this community for us (and obviously for anything that uses sound files, it’s not exempt from the compilation criticism) because it allows for free, public content without having to involve a participant who might be unwilling or uninformed.

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I go back to the days of the old Yahoo voice chat rooms the predated the Yahoo groups, and the burp fetish forums came later.

I must admit you are right. I met many burpers and those into burps that all made the fetish seem normative. It was just another kink.

There wasn’t a lot of content to share before YouTube, so we used to just open up voice chat rooms and listen to people burping back and forth and talking about burps. YouTube was great in the beginning, and we could easily search for a share burp video links. But, both the search engines and the creepy comments started rendering YouTube useless for the most part.

The problem is that there is a spectrum on the scale of prude to creep in everyone with a burping fetish.

The prudes will join a fetish “community”, then refuse to discuss burping at all. They would be more objectionable to sharing content made by people that don’t know the fetish exists. For the prudes, restraint is everything.

The creeps are everywhere. They live for the comment section of TikTok and YouTube, and make the most cringe statements about the burps and ask if they can fart or burp shirtless. They do anything to proclaim their arousal over burping with no restraint. They even share and sell content made by paid burpers. So wrong!

Most of us are in the middle somewhere. We acknowledge the danger posed by the creeps and the prudes make sharing online content taboo. Sometimes if feels weird being aroused by burpers that don’t know the are turned on by their burping, and it causes a healthy sense of guilt. I suppose that’s why the acquisition of burp “porn” is best left to Chaturbate and OnlyFans. The pay wall keeps the content creator in control.

I think this forum has done an awesome job of keeping people in the middle of the spectrum. There’s nothing really wrong with saying a gamer if challenge blogger makes hot burp content. I admire those in the forums that spend hours trying to find new fetish triggering video content. And, when people share videos, it’s from content creators that are no longer burping for pay. It’s a functional community, people will also let you know when the burper hasn’t quite turned 18 yet. Ooops!

I remember when I knew people at the burp fetish forum on a first name basis…like we were related. And, the conversation was never about burping 100% of the time.

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By the way, the rule about sharing content that’s no longer being sold isn’t set in stone. If the majority of people don’t like that rule, we could always change it.

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You can split us into creeps and prudes, it doesnt matter.

I need you and everyone else to engage with my central point here.

POSTING NON CONSENSUAL CONTENT HERE SCARES WOMEN AWAY.

YOU ARE ON TEAM POST-NON-CON-AND-SCARE WOMEN, OR YOU ON TEAM DONT-SCARE-WOMEN.

All of the philosophical mumbo jumbo was me trying to explain WHY women might feel uncomfortable with the non-con, and I think they are valid in feeling this way.

THE FACT THAT WE ARE SCARING WOMEN AWAY SHOULD AT BARE MINIMUM RESULT IN INTROSPECTION.

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I think that it’s rare for women to want to go to fetish websites in the first place, and whatever we do, we’re not going to have many female members. To give you the benefit of the doubt though, the plan would essentially be to attract more women to this website by cutting out the parts of male sexuality that women tend to find distasteful?

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Non consensualality is not part of male sexuality. We should stop doing it on that ground alone, but if you must think of it in terms of communal health, then yes. I can’t promise that stopping the noncon will “attract” women, but I think it will stop pushing them away.

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The only thing scaring women away are people who go to their channels to harrass and burp beg as well as people who wrecklessly include names in YouTube content. Not sure how non consensual content in itself is scaring away women when most women posted here have no idea they are being posted or that the burp fetish is even a thing to begin with. Most women that visit this site either have the fetish themselves, are content creators, or a mixture of both. Now if you said some forum members scare away active or potential consensual content creators by being rude, pushy, or obsessive that would be a more understandable argument.

What would urge an ordinary Jane with no knowledge of the burp fetish to come here? Only things I can think of is A: they stumble across a burp compilation posted of them due to the creator putting their name in the title/description, B: they have a bunch of randos coming to their chats/comment sections putting extreme emphasis on their burps/begging them to burp, or C: Somebody straight up tells them about the fetish/forum. I get your point about posting non consensual content not being the most moral thing to do but that’s kinda what this forum revolves around(and has forever). Only thing we can do at this point is make sure that we are careful about how we post this non consensual content.

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Are you the type of guy who never went home and jerked off after they saw a peer-group woman (e.g. in high school, at the work place, etc) in a low-cut top, or in tight jeans or a nice dress? It’s ok if you aren’t, but you have to understand that a lot of guys are like that and that’s perfectly ok too. Such women didn’t necessarily set out to arouse men, but nevertheless, they end up arousing a simple biological response. In these situations, one would either make do with the fap (with the “wank bank” material stored in the brain) or attempt to woo the lady and go all the way with her (and perhaps even take the relationship to a logical endpoint of marriage and children). If you make do with the fap, and don’t tell her or make her feel uncomfortable about the fact, then it’s all fine and dandy. Definitely nothing like a percursor to rape, because so many men would never even contemplate that. Women definitely do the same thing (masturbate to and fantasise) about people they lust over.

And you must admit that the very notion of “oh hey I’m someone who would like to privately masturbate based on fleeting (or not-so-fleeting) glimpses of your sexy body, but please may I obtain your express and informed consent to do so?” is absurd, right? Some things are so exciting and sexually intoxicating because by their very nature they are taboo and “forbidden”, but it’s still possible to do them safely and sanely with the “observed party” being none the wiser (and that’s not to say I’m advocating for someone to wank from their top floor bedroom window observing the sexy person sunbathing in the next door garden).

If one is an ethical pervert, and doesn’t try to induce more content out of someone innocently making burping videos in an unaware state, that’s comparable to my first paragraph and it can be perfectly healthy. The same would correspond for witnessing burps in high school (which is how most of us discovered our fetish).

The sexuality honed in this community can also be rounded off with discussion here on the forum, inter-gender communication, learning about other experiences, perhaps trying the on-forum dating scene, etc. So it’s a lot more nuanced than “Young men are gonna show up here and their only interaction with this side of their sexuality will be this. (“non-consensual content”)”

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AI’s can be made to do so many specific and varied tasks these days, it was inevitable it would go this way. It takes some of the effort and other resources out of having to manually search and archive material. I’d be more concerned about if AI ever go sentient and dangerous.

Also, as I’ve said before, there is no such thing as SFW burping content, because you just wouldn’t play videos of anyone burping at your office with coworkers around.

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Okay, I’m starting to get a little frustrated now.

"Oh hey I’m someone who would like to privately masturbate based on fleeting (or not-so-fleeting) glimpses of your sexy body, but please may I obtain your express and informed consent to do so?” is absurd, right?

I do not think this. If you want to search burping on youtube or click the burping tag on tiktok, and wank to it, I don’t think you’ve done anything wrong. I DO THIS TOO.

When you post those videos here, when you trade and compile them, and when you maintain an infrastructure to trade those videos, all without consent, that is the issue. It may be true that it is unlikely that this behavior will hurt women, but one of these days y’all are gonna step on the toes of someone who is educated and has the time, energy, and clout to investigate the behavior on this site. You will have to make these same arguments to her and the whole internet if the investigation goes viral, and I simply don’t think these weak arguments are gonna hold up.

You motherfuckers are acting like if you can’t post @naivesuzzie18butreally16’s mediocre burps, your balls are going to explode.

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Well, I was specifically talking about the notion of someone telling their high school crush (or coworker, etc) that they wanted to get consent to masturbate to their content (which ironically would itself usually be construed as sexual harassment as a mere admission UNLESS the person was known to be “literally anything goes in choosing a topic of conversation”, and even then it would usually fly in the face of the organising body- a school, a business, many societies in themselves) there. So, I’d rather not be guilty of sexual harassment in seeking to obtain consent to post, trade, compile and maintain that infrastructure. Compounded by the fact that part of the sexual harassment would be just outing this bizarre and (to some) disgusting fetish to them (I saw one woman saying there’s no way “burp kinks are real” on TikTok, and I felt like “if you only knew”). So how would you propose circumventing that paradox?

Also, with respect, I’m not sure as to your legalistic credentials on this matter. But please provide those, if you have any. It could well be that in various international jurisdictions, doing those actions you mentioned are seen as “no foul no harm”. Whether it be that it becomes illegal one day e.g. by precedent but isn’t yet, or it may be that it’s actually protected and enshrined in certain jurisdictions.

I also am more than happy to just let the TikTok algorithm (same for other platforms) guide me to fresh content, as you mention in your third paragraph there. E.g. because the forum may be sleeping on a good new talent. I’m also happy to let the forum show me the way to new material.

I do think that, while you feel strongly about your perspective, you have a minority opinion and you face an uncertain path to get the forum to flip on the issue. It’s how we’ve done it for decades, and most people don’t think it’s a problem if done sanely and safely. Many people now only share videos with identifying info obfuscated, a case in which editing (even without their consent) can actually protect the creator of the content.

I also have to admit that I’ve merely skimmed over a lot of the contributions to this topic (by dint of being a busy man), but I’m keenly interested in reading more as and when I have time.

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I’m not a lawyer. I’m not saying what we are doing is illegal. Im saying it is wrong. I know what I’m saying is a hard sell. I just think things will get better if we respect women more.

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Yea i completely understand where your coming from. I dont mind people advertisement but i will eother never buy content or buy very few mostly because part of the fetish for me is how they want people to enjoy their burps not for money. Not saying we should outcast them or anything but when there is more content than demand it definitely starts to feel like its being shoved down our throats. If it helps i just posted some burps and i dont charge i only burp for compliments ^~^

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