Being here for as long as I have (not that long) but I have been wondering if it is ever okay to kink shame in a non sexual context. What kinks can be looked down upon?
I can’t shame anyone for something they can’t control, like being attracted to certain things. I can only shame people’s actions, which they can control.
A kink is never an excuse or a means to justify an action that’s frowned upon.
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Anything children related, anything animal related, incest, and a bit of a hot topic but rape play is shame-able to me because there are real victims of rape that did not enjoy it, I guess if you do rape play in private only and don’t post it online it shouldn’t cause any harm or be a problem so it’s all good in that case
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you bring up animals but one could argue that those who eat meat can’t pass judgement as they hurt animals.
It’s very different when you’re doing something for survival such as eating compared to when you’re doing something for pleasure with something that can’t consent (animals). It is just simply wrong
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