(I copy and pasted this from reddit but then I found this forum soo yeah)
I’m (18F) just sharing my story a bit but, like everyone else here I have a burp fetish. I’ve never had anyone to talk to about it cause it’s fucking embarrassing and thought nobody would understand, but I think this site is the closest I’ve got.
I don’t even know why I have it. Normal stuff that’s supposed to turn ppl on doesn’t do it for me but burping does. I remember being as young as 4-5 years old getting turned on by burping scenes in cartoons?? When I turned 10 and got my own phone I would watch videos on it before going to sleep or if I was just bored. I didn’t even know what anything nsfw was til I was like 13 but I remember watching those burping videos just made me feel good down there.
Since I’m on the asexual spectrum, I’ve never really been attracted to much of anything else. And I don’t really get “horny” that much either. Like if I had the option to never be allowed indulge in this fetish again, I would be fine. It’s not a necessity or addiction. It’s just something that feels nice once I watch it, kinda like going to get a massage every once in awhile.
But still its just confusing to me why I’m like this. I’m not attracted at all to any other body functions either but just this? Thinking about it is literally the only thing that gets me close to climax. I might be going too personal but, I rarely ever jerk off cause I never feel the need to, but when I tried with “normal” jerk off material, I felt nothing so I simply thought that it was just a waste of time. but then I experimented with burping videos and low and behold that did the trick.
Its just sucks cause I wanna be normal and I tried so hard to get myself to be into normal turn ons and suppress this stuff, but that didn’t really work so i guess I gotta embrace and accept this or whatever. At least its a tame fetish and not some immoral shit
i genuinely feel the exact same way, been around people doing it since a very young age, sadly i feel like for me it is an addiction in a way. I jerk off around the same as most people because I’m only 16(M) but just not to normal things. not attracted to other bodily functions. Cant jerk off with “normal” things. only way my body has found a loophole is to open a couple tabs if your on a computer and have 1 or 2 tabs of whatever you want (in this case probably burping videos) and one of whatever you think is normal to jerk off too. helps me at least. but yeah I feel the same way, nobody in my personal life knows about it and unless somebody finds out on accident I’m taking it to my grave.
Yeah I can relate. I’m a guy in my early twenties but have memories of having this fetish that strech all the way back to when I was in kindergarten. It’s always been my main turn on(I have a few other tame “oddball” fetishes as well though). I’ve had friends who felt comfortable enough openly discussing porn they watched. Of course this was the usual porn so nothing too out of the ordinary really(besides the fact that they’d go way too into detail at times lol). However, I could never fully relate cause it’s not my main thing(not my thing at all tbh).
Rarely ever used sites like PH cause it mainly caters to the usual audience. Plus the usual stuff never really did it for me anyway(especially if there is another guy involved). It’s always been about women burping for me and I knew for a fact if I mentioned my burp fetish people(even the friends who’d openly discuss their fap sessions lol) would think i’m weird asl for it. Crazy that we live in a society where a good portion of people are willing to put their mouths where someone poops but fetishes like burps and feet somehow cross the lines of normalcy🤦♂️. That’s just the way it is though. I’m fully comfortable having this fetish because of how basic it is on the surface, but letting others know that I have it is out of the question.
completely agree, i feel like if it gets out my life will be over kind of. I will be picked on forever, my friends would tell their friends, then they would tell their friends, and so on everyone who has heard my name will know me as the kid that has a burping fetish. its extremely embarrassing to myself to even say the words “burping fetish”
I legit wondered this myself. So I compiled a list and thought really hard one day about WHY I had this fetish and I was able to come up with some answers you might be able to relate to.
So first, I think it’s kinda a dominance thing, like as far as sound bc the bigger the burp the more turned on we are, right? (There are limitations to this.)
Second, the “strength” or “talent” it takes to make a burp is impressive and anything that you can be impressed by the other party is pretty hot.
Third, the action of producing a belch is hot when you think about it.
Fourth, personally, I am a straight female, and to me, when a guy burps it almost brings me peace, because it’s such a strong, “manly” thing to do.
Fifth, If the person can burp whenever they want, it’s almost a “intense” situation on its own, that the other party can turn you on whenever.
That’s all I’ve come up with, but apply it to how you feel and see if it’s accurate in your life.
This exactly. I’m a female and I used to be disgusted in this fetish but now I’m at a point of acceptance, interest, and neutrality with it. It’s something that most likely won’t ever change, so I’m not gonna beat myself up over it. I will most likely not ever tell anyone though, even my gf I’ve been with for over 8 months now knows nothing about it and I don’t plan to tell them. Yes it could add some good stuff in the relationship but it can also go the opposite way and they’ll make fun of me or something. I prefer it to be my fun little secret.
@ the post above me - I’m 21F and in the same boat w/ my male partner of over a year. We have a sex/intimacy life that operates just fine luckily and I don’t think I’ll ever need to tell him He has his own stuff he gets off to in his free time and who knows what that is. It’s ok to have personal things!
OP, I understand. I’ve been where you are (throughout ages like 16-19) and I swear its possible for it to get easier.
I have more to say on this but no time to type rn. I’ll be back probably.
Sadly the more known it becomes the more negative attention it will bring. I often see people’s first reaction to discovering this fetish(thanks to creeps) and they usually can’t fathom it. It’d basically become well known for being “weird” like the foot fetish. I do think there are many people who don’t realize they have this fetish though. Cause there’s been too many times where i’d see a girl burp(videos and in person) and other guys around would become overly invested in it to the point it’d seem they thought it was hot lol.
I’d actually prefer for it to remain a niche thing, because I feel like there would be a lot less content around if it was a well known fetish.
Also, the older I get the less I care about being accepted/ understood but it’s still nice to see neutral or slightly positive reactions from people who aren’t looking to make money from it (nothing wrong with that obv).
Yeah I agree. It being niche yet natural is what makes us lucky to have it. Something so common that many people do without a second thought yet we find it attractive. It’s one of those things that just doesnt need more eyes on it due it being so habitual. It’s a bodily function that’s right below sneezing, coughing, and yawning in frequency. We have it a lot easier than people who have to actively seek things that would otherwise be hidden. It can really only go down from here.
If it were to become some well known taboo fetish in the public eye it really wouldn’t benefit us at all(as far as free content goes) and do a lot of damage. More muted burps, editing out burps, and muffling/holding back burps all because it’d be a known fetish. Burp fetish related jokes and memes would be a common thing too(those who feel bad about having it would be made to feel worse). People would get more suspicious of something sexual when the topic of burps come up. Overall it’d make it harder for a burp fetishist to maneuver.
He has his own stuff he gets off to in his free time and who knows what that is. It’s ok to have personal things!