I just talked abt 2 particular females when i used the word “stupid”, also i have enough satisfying discussions with girls from this forum and IRL, what u guys are saying inducing the idea that somehow i should feel that im missing out cus im not writing dms with that attention whore is making me laugh. Im not even tryna be arrogant but u guys are just stupid lmao
I dont need any online attention whore girl to have sex with me. Also, no female is fucking me, ure the only one here getting pegged by them 
you can say that again
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You’re not getting it.
Go be a douche bag somewhere else.
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Yeah im gonna say it all my life, im never gonna get to the point where im saying “i got fucked good by a girl”, that shit is gay and loser-y. But go ahead have fun being a lesbian, having the “relationship” of ur dreams but still feeling the need to come here and replying to people who are disgusted by you
As i said, i dont wanna get anything from attention whore femcels, that reply is weeks old, LOSERS
Why are you so mad at the world? Did you wake up on the wrong side of bed today?
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Im seriously not mad at the world, quite the opposite. But its funny how people assume that if ure angry that somehow ure mad at the world, thats signaling stupidity from their part and lack of iq is sometimes a subject of entartainment for me when i see it in other people
I’ve got to keep up with the forum drama. My girlfriend likes to ask me what people are squabbling about on here
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I’m 23 and I can burp on command
I messaged you in dm so please check
It tools be fun if we have burp contests together !
How’s that ?
You do seem to have quite the sour attitude on this forum, I’ve seen you act like this on multiple threads
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I’m curious what draws you to burps if not for sexual reasons. Genuine question.
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I feel like it’s not that hard to understand that someone can find something to be erotic without being interested in other, more traditionally sexual things. Like, I feel like this is a relatively common sentiment here and some of y’all are being obtuse.
No, I don’t think folks are being obtuse. Allosexuals usually struggle understanding asexuality. Hell, asexuals seem to struggle to understand themselves sometimes. The questions make sense to me.
Erotic: relating to or tending to arouse sexual desire or excitement.
Asexual: Experiencing no sexual feelings or desires.
Oxford dictionary
What you call obtuse, some may call contradictions. But hey, you said it, not me.
“Asexual: a person who experiences no sexual feelings or desires, or who is not sexually attracted to anyone.” I do have sexual feelings (hence the fetish), but I am not sexually attracted to other people.
So it’s not that burps aren’t sexual for me — they often are. I’m just not interested in raunchy interactions with others (i.e. people sending me burps and constantly asking if I’m getting off to them, etc). Gets weird and uncomfortable real quick.
Regardless, I’m only on this site for friendly conversation, and I ask for burps solely because they’re fun to listen to sometimes. Definitely not looking for “help”, I’m rarely on here when I’m actually horny lol.
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Some people seem to use asexuality as meaning not into typical male or female sexual desires. imo that’s not a good use of the term. As people have said above, asexuality usually refers to the absence of any sexual desire at all for anything.
A “no sexual desire at all for anything” definition is rarely used nowadays due to how non-nuanced it is; most sources acknowledge masturbation, fetishes and kinks as outlets for aces (56% of asexuals still masturbate, according to the full source below). They just tend not to be as interested in partnered sex.
“Human asexuality is generally defined as a lack of sexual attraction… Of those who have had a sexual fantasy, asexual women and men were significantly more likely to endorse the response ‘my fantasies do not involve other people’ compared to sexual participants… Notably, both asexual and sexual participants (both men and women) were equally likely to fantasize about topics such as fetishes and BDSM.”
Source: Sexual Fantasy and Masturbation Among Asexual Individuals: An In-Depth Exploration - PubMed
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Thank you for the clear and respectful answer. I understand what you’re saying 
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A “no sexual desire at all for anything” definition is rarely used nowadays
I know that some use it with a meaning that’s more orientated towards social identity and etc, but that’s what I disagree with. In that study, they define asexuality in quite an ambiguous way, which is reflected in their results:
While there are a number of differences between asexual and sexual groups in terms of patterns of masturbation and sexual fantasy, as well as in contents of sexual fantasy, the similarity between the groups on several of these measures is striking. For example, nearly half of asexual women and three quarters of asexual men reported both experiencing sexual fantasy and masturbating, despite reporting a lack of sexual attraction to other people and identifying as asexual. Further, there was significant overlap in the sexual fantasies experienced by participants, regardless of their asexual or sexual status.
People who do have sexual desire, just towards their particular fetishes:
I did find this part interesting. Maybe there needs to be a new term that means ‘attracted solely to things and people outside of myself’.
That one’s quite concerning too as it suggests maybe some problems with self-image to want to completely remove yourself from the scene.
All of these are valid things to research, but why categorise a bunch of sexual interests under a word that means ‘without sexuality’?
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