It’s a well-known fact that many fetish communities are male-dominated. While there’s nothing inherently wrong with that, as a woman, I’ve only come across a few other women during my time on these forums—some of whom were likely men pretending to be women. Which is why I wanted to share my experience.
Having this interest as a woman feels like being a needle in a haystack. The few people who find me are often the ones I wish hadn’t. I never had a “bad” experience until I tried to connect with other like-minded women. I posted my own burps, searched on Reddit, and joined Discord servers and Telegram groups, but I was never able to find someone like me. The few times I thought I had found someone, they turned out to be men posing as women in order to solicit burps from women.
I drove myself crazy trying to find the ideal person who shared my interests so I wouldn’t feel so alone. I was thrilled when I discovered these forums because, although I didn’t find exactly who I was looking for, I did find comfort in the shared experiences of the community here. I used to think of myself as a freak of nature until I learned to accept the fact I had this fetish. These forums have helped me understand myself better which I am insanely grateful for.
Also, to the men excited hearing about a woman into burps, sorry to crush your dreams, but I’m into women.
Welcome to the forums, Willow!! I am also a woman and feel the same; we are definitely a rarity in this community. I’m bisexual but am in a committed long term relationship with my boyfriend. I’m not on here often (maybe once every three months), but feel free to DM me if you wanted to just chat! Also, I’m sorry to hear that you went through that; it sounds very frustrating and infuriating
Welcome to the community. I’m sorry to hear about your past experiences with men. I hope you have more positive experiences with the fetish going forward. It can certainly be a bit awkward to live with at times, but it can also be excellent with good partners.
I’m a man, but have had the exact same level of a sense of belonging you describe. This forum has given me the courage to be more open about my fetish, which has segued to my wife opening up about her kinks too. It has elevated our sex life and I owe a lot of this to the forum. I’ve been a member for a long long time, and it’s nice to hear these stories whenever I pop on!
Welcome! How long have you known you’ve had the fetish? I’ve been on the forums for over a decade, through various names, saw women come and go, more recently either scared away or trying to sell content. I can imagine how lonely it must be to be a lesbian with the burp fetish, but there is at least one other member here if I recall. People might also feel compelled to come out of the woodwork in your DMs. You never know.
I am primarily attracted to tomboyish queer women (bi or pansexual obviously) and they are underrepresented in the videos, so I can relate a bit.
Just tuning in to say i can relate hard and feel you on this — I’ve had almost the exact same experience. It’s super rare to meet women who are into this fetish, and with guys pretending to be women, it just makes connecting and building trust to indulge in the fetish so much harder. I’ve been lucky to share it with a few real women, and those experiences were always positive. Hope you’ve had some good experiences too!
I completely agree with your experience. I fell in love with and moved across the country for a man I met on here. Was a mistake I’m still trying to recover from. I think it was wishful thinking I’d find genuine love on a fetish forums, but hey I tried lmao.
I’m a woman but not on that often tbh. I have been on these forums and also the older version of the forums where it felt like I was the only girl on there. So I understand how u feel but tbh I’m glad there’s so many more women finding these forums and feeling comfortable enough to share their experiences !
