Circle jerks?

I recently saw the movie “Y Tu Mama Tambien”. It’s about two horny guy friends and there’s a brief scene where they are masturbating next to each other and helping each other imagine hot women.

I remember maaaaaany years ago when I was growing up there being a rumor that sometimes dudes masturbated in front of each other, but thought it was more of a joke than anything. But then I looked it up for the first time really after watching that movie and fully realized “oh so it’s really a thing?” Like circle jerks and such? Hetero dudes literally helping each other get off? excuse me if I sound ignorant but I just never experienced that and I have no frame of reference for how common that is. I also grew up going to Catholic school so i bet there was a lot more shame about that but no lie now the concept of it has me a bit hot and bothered.

Has anyone here actually engaged in some sort of mutual masturbating with someone of the same sex? Were you also into the burping fetish (or other) and used that to help each other get off?

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I’ve done this a few times. I’m bi, though, not straight, though most of the guys I did it with were straight. No burping unfortunately, though they knew I was into it. Sometimes one would fart, though, though mostly just because he had to, not because I liked it (though they did know I might like it, same with burps).

It’s really fun, especially if you can rile each other up. I guess it’s sort of comparable to doing so over comments on posts on forums like these, but really, you need to physicality to get the full effect.

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how did it…start? like again - no frame of reference. were ya’ll just hanging at somebody’s house and someone got randy and was like “look at this” and it went from there? was it planned in any way? lol

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In my case, we were just hanging out, doing gaming nights, when we started talking about girls. We sort of framed it like a “20 questions” game, where you had to talk about your kinks, preferences, hypothetical scenarios, etc. We just got more and more riled up. Eventually we just admitted what we were doing and then got more brazen with it. But no, it was initially completely spontaneous, though I or the other guy would sort of “go there” , as we’d put it, deliberately for the following several times.

After a while, though, it died down. I was the only true bi one, and I think everyone else was sort of just experimenting and the one that was probably also bi ended up sort of shutting that part of himself out.

I personally would love to have 3 or 4 IRL guys/girls to do this with again, but I haven’t managed to find them yet.

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I had straight friends who did it in my early-mid teens. They weren’t helping each other in any way and just didn’t care about the other people being present. It just didn’t bother them enough compared to the constant horniness and carelessness of that age. Sometimes, they even watched the same video together.

I’d say if it happens at a later stage in life, it might be them actually experimenting or something, but in many cases, especially during teen years, it’s just them being horny and not giving a fuck lol.

Though it was pretty weird to witness the existence of the phenomenon back then for me too lol. I never did it, and I doubt even a burping video would’ve changed that.

Never been in something like this but after I came to terms with my liking for femboys, I’ve thought about it and have these thoughts of “It’d be nice to help someone with a big cock rub one out.”

When I was in middle school one of my classmates showed me his dick in the library lmao. He was like “hey man come over here” and he took me to an empty aisle and I asked “what is it?” and he just whipped it out in front of me. I half-laughed half-yelped and turned around and went back to my seat.

He got in trouble for that because someone knew he was going to do that to me and told the teacher. But I think about that kid from time to time and what “that was all about”.

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I wasn’t prepared for how horny I would get reading this thread :hot_face: theres something so incredibly hot about straight guys jerking off together and trying to turn each other on

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In middle school, some dudes would have “meat contests” where they stroked themselves to have a literal dicksizing contest. This had to be done huddled in a circle because it was outside at recess, which was somewhat supervised. They were all straight. Ah, puberty.

It’s genuinely so fun and I definitely credit it for my bi awakening, among many other things. I believe if guys weren’t so scared of being “gay”, more men would enjoy doing it. I always imagine combining it with a burping contest or guys arching their backs and letting loose :face_with_spiral_eyes: plus it’s just fun bonding imo, but that’s probably the demi in me

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Back in middle school, I was at a friend’s house with 5 other guys and somehow we got into an argument about dick sizes. We settled the argument by jerking off in separate rooms and then meeting in another room to compare.

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Haven’t heard from you in a while so here’s a like.

thx

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As a queer person myself, I find the idea of two straight men wanking together to be strange. I couldn’t imagine masturbating with another person in the room at all unless it was a sexual partner. is it straight to “jerk off” infront of another man?

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Came across this while trying to find something in the old forums lol.

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“fellas, is it gay to rub one out with the boys?”

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Wow, there’s a lot to unbox with this topic. First of all…wow to the ones who had an experience like this at such a young age. I simply cannot fathom boys doing this at all let alone middle school aged. It personally feels like something that might only happen in a town/city with very poor education systems or low income families. If I’m wrong about that then clearly I am very sheltered. How does a group of boys that age come to such an agreement to not only show each other their penis but also to masterbate in front of each other? Again, I’m probably being heavily disrespectful here but is this for real in some places? Every boy I knew would never ever do something like that because it has no other meaning than to be gay in doing so (as MackZack and Mememe said above). Now…I said a lot to unbox because while I have a hard time understanding this as being a normal event in society, I do have some level of “interest” in it myself…but that is after many “adult years” of sexual development and maturing. I do think about what it would be like to be in the presence of another man my age where we play some belching videos or audio and see the other guy get hard. As long as the other guy or guys all openly have this fetish I could probably do it. But otherwise the thought of jerking off in front of others who would likely judge me for being aroused by burping scares me, gives me anxiety lol.

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While I am EXTREMELY straight, back I want to say like 5-6 years ago??? Me and an old group of friends has this thing called “D club” where on discord (this is getting way worse the more I type it out :skull:) we would all compare our cock sizes to each other. We would show pictures and we’d make fun of each like “haha look we are in D club” and I think that’s the closest experiment we did. Though one day a few years later, while at a school trip hotel room, me and 4 other friends at the time were all hanging out, and our one friend that is completely unhinged and speaks what’s on his mind and is very spontaneous, (I’m not even sure how we got on the topic) but we got on the topic of it and he randomly said “I’m part of D club” and randomly whips his dick out in front of us. He’s the comedic one so we were laughing our asses off for so long and we still mention it to this day. But I don’t think we were ever horny enough to jerk each other off (though i wouldn’t be surprised with some of the dudes who became gay or turned to girls would now)

So more than one member of the D club ended up being gay? Perhaps it wasn’t all about comparing sizes for some of them lol.

What do you mean by turned to girls?

I mean we all find out one way or another that we aren’t straight