I’m new to the forum but i’ve known about this fetish for awhile, I am curious how do some of you deal with having burping as a fetish?
I’ll give a little info about myself, I just recently turned 20 and I’m a dude, I was probably around 12-13 when I realized I liked women burping and immediately I knew I’d most likely have to take this secret to my grave for fear of being called weird and gross. Even now I have told no one I know personally about this fetish of mine. It feels kinda nice to ask this in a community full of people who probably have the same or similar experience.
But even now I’m still not completely sure if this is a blessing or a curse so to speak, so I ask for any advice anyone has on the topic
I believe it is a blessing when you learn to accept it. Still, discretion is advised. People can be very cruel. I told people when I was younger, and while I do not care what they think of me, my fetish is probably the least-kept secret in my small hometown. Fun xD
Yeah I think I’ve told 2 maybe 3 people in person ever that I have the fetish. Which I think only 1 of those was directly, and to my gf at the time. I think for your safety it’s best not to tell anyone unless it’s your committed relationship. I personally don’t think there’s anything wrong with having the fetish of course, but others won’t think that same way.
I think it’s all about coming to terms that this is very much a part of who you are. You don’t necessarily have to keep it a never-mentioned secret, as at least you have a community you can discuss it with (us).
In my case (being a gay man), I’d say there is a little more room to discussing it via the dating/hook up apps as the hay community is more open when it comes to exploring fetishes. However, I close to never being this up when talking to people I may have already told via the app.
I guess for a straight man it might be harder to find a possible context to talk about it face to face with a girl, but I will agree to the fact that you should be able to bring this up once you trust that special person enough.
I just wanna say thank you to anyone who already responded and thank you in advance to anyone who responds in the future, I’m grateful to have somewhere to talk about this in a judgement free zone. I do believe talking about it and not just letting my brain do its thing and spiral into depression is a helpful step in the right direction. Feel free to ask me any questions you have for me. Thank you once again everyone
The trick is not let the fetish to control you, you control it. Some many people here are burp pilled and let their fetish control them. these people will be the downfall of their own sexual interests.
Just for you I went to see if some of the messages were saved of the one girl I told and they were
I swear I haven’t cringed more in my life
This was like 7 years ago so we were both pretty young but it was with this girl named Jenna (honestly I might have even done a story on her I can’t remember)
I didn’t read much because I could just tell that I was pestering her to talk about it and stories and shit from her, and eventually she got uncomfortable from it (which was fully understandable) so I think eventually I stopped asking about it
The worst part was I was dating my gf at the time, and I remember I even got her to tell me stories of when her and Jenna would hang out and when she would release these massive burps in front of her (they had a lot of same classes together) so that was enjoyable to read
I’m glad I am NO WHERE near acting like that anymore because the little bit I read was a nightmare
That’s not really what I’m talking about more so about people talking about like, the fetish “taking over” like it’s some weird parasite or something. It ain’t that serious
used to be in like exactly the same position as you when I was your age
But I’m 24 now (actually my birthday today) and I stopped being a dude a few years back and stopped feeling like my fetish needed to be a big secret last year and it’s been great to slowly let it be something I can just have be part of my life as I get more comfortable with having it be part of me and my sexuality and because of that, feel comfortable talking to people about in ways that let me have fun expereinces with play partners which further helps me feel more comfortable with it. I’ve told a decent number of people in the past year and had no actually bad reactions. They’ve basically all ranged from surprised curiosity to an actual interest in getting to play with it. Take active steps in trying to move past your shame. This doesn’t need to be more of a secret than any other part of your sexuality.
It is what it is at this point. There’s definitely worse kinks out there so keep that in mind if you ever feel any shame about being into burps. A girl might find it humorous or something, but they might indulge in it if they like you enough (;
I got really into NoFap a while ago and I would get really bad post nut clarity afterwards… eventually I ended up not looking at porn or jacking off for over 450 days… once I relapsed the chaser effect kicked in HARD and I was going on upwards of 15 hour long benders because of the overwhelming amounts of dopamine I was sustaining. It led to me hurting my dick and now I think it has a new large vein sticking our of the left side or maybe I’m just being paranoid and it was always there but I don’t think that’s the case. But I know what it could be, just like a new big lump on the left side of my dick.
y’all are HARD on yourselves
more so about people talking about like, the fetish “taking over” like it’s some weird parasite or something. It ain’t that serious