It took me a long time. I had the fetish ever since puberty, but didn’t want to admit it until my twenties. I was so relieved to find out that I wasn’t alone. What about you guys?
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Hi Rosy! Nice to see you here.
I was interested in girls who could burp when I was about 11, but it was only at puberty that I realised that it turned me on. It was also around this time, 12, that I found the old website and lurked for a while before I made an account.
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Well it depends on what you mean with the question, I’ve told a few friends about it and I’ve accepted it’s a part of who I am but I’ve had this my whole life I’m not really sure what it’s like to not have it play a small part at least in attraction to a woman. I want to tell my partner one day when the time is right but to be honest I’ll need one first lol it’s been a while haha
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I accepted it once I understood what a paraphilla was when I was in my mid-teens. My fetish has been an inherent aspect of my sexuality for as long as I can remember though. I cannot pinpoint with certainty in how/why it developed, but I do remember being around women in my life at a young age that burped. Even though I acknowledged the fetish, I still felt shame, embarrassment, confusion, and loneliness from it. I tried repressing my urges and I remember at one point I thought I might have to keep it a secret my whole life.
When I discovered the Burp Fetish Forums around 2008/2009, it was a huge psychological relief for me. Knowing that other people had the fetish was a game changer and helped me so much mentally. The first time I told a person in real-life was a girl I was dating when I was 22. I have only told women I have been intimate with about the fetish. I have had some mixed reactions, but in general, every girl has been very understanding and non-judgmental about the fetish. I just got out of a long-term relationship where my girlfriend burped for me constantly and it was amazing. I have really come to terms with it and I am confident that I will be able to find a future partner who will do it for me as well.
I just really want to stress to the younger members on the forums that we are all human. Although we all can feel like outcasts with our unique and strange fetish, we also need to give ourselves some self-compassion as well. It isn’t easy having this fetish. We have lived our entire lives having to keep a major secret about our sexuality, just because the majority of people in society don’t have it and don’t understand it. Because of this though, we have created a community over the last decade that has been supportive and therapeutic to many people.
If anybody wants advice on how to go about telling a partner about your fetish let me know. I would recommend not bringing up burping until you are ready to be open and honest about your fetish with a person. If it seems that a sexual relationship could be in the works, or even after you have already had some initial sexual activity, this is the time when you bring it up. No covert questions about burping or encouragement to burp before then. Your first and only discussions with them about burping needs to be genuine and honest in regards to your fetish. It is also okay if they don’t feel comfortable doing it, you have to respect that as well. I promise that there are many people out there who do not have the fetish that would be willing to burp for you though. You just need to be open and honest about it.
Sorry for the long post! Got a little carried away there. Thanks to the moderators for the new website and here’s to another decade of the forum.
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I guess I didn’t really admit it to myself until partway through college. I discovered the gathering place for this kind of stuff late in high school, but hadn’t really come to terms about the fact that it was a kink for me. But as I found myself hanging around more and just learning more about it and myself, it just kind of clicked.
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That’s awesome. I’m glad it clicked and welcome to the new website.
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I’ve known it about myself for a looong time. I spent a lot of hours on dial-up loading audio files on I think it was belch.com at the time. But I didn’t really act on it until I hit puberty. I’ve only told one girl I dated (I’ve only dated one girl lol but for six years) and it was amazing. She told a few of her friends, and I had to learn that it wasn’t that big a deal the hard way. Still great memories though. Just waiting on the next relationship to try it over again.
I don’t think recognition of having the fetish ever came with an ‘admittance’ per se. I just came into puberty and began somewhat naturally using the fetish for gratification. It seemed more so logical that it was just a part of me, rather than a bizarre thing that I had no control over or didn’t wish to have. I knew it might be difficult to find a girlfriend who was receptive to it, but I’ve actually had tremendous luck thus far. Still, I have wondered a lot about the psychological aspects of it. What causes it, mainly. There has been little grief otherwise, only minor embarrassment. 
I don’t think it was a case of admitting it. I always liked it when girls burped and realised it in puberty. It was good to know that I wasn’t the only one
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I knew I liked hearing burps from as early as 5 years old. I remember at school always asking my friends to burp for me (and they usually would happily oblige). Back then before puberty hit I liked to hear guys and girls burp but if I did ever catch a girl burping I would like it a lot more than if it had come from a guy, it would give me an anxious/nervous excited feeling. It wasn’t until I was about 16 that I hit puberty and I knew stright away that burping was what turned me on, even the first time I ever masterbated was to recorded burps I found online (a couple years before the forums or even youtube were around). So I guess I have always known and had no trouble admitting it to myself.
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I think I was like 14. I remember i discovered “Burpgirlz” channel by mistake and watched one the videos on there. About 30 seconds into it i realised i was turned on. The rest as they say is history haha
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I’ve had the fetish since I was around 9 years old, just didn’t know about it until puberty. So I was probably 14 years old when I said to myself that I had the fetish, and became a lurker on this forum. This is my first post ever lol
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Continuing the discussion from When did you admit it to yourself?:
Hi … I just read your July 21 post, I found it quite inspiring I could say, and I wanted to know if you could help me know how to tell someone about this … I’m only 17 years old and I don’t know very well how to do it.
sorry for the inconvenience
I was attracted to burps when I was little, long before I even knew what a fetish or even sex was
When I was around 11 or 12, I was interested in learning how to burp on command. It was late at night and I looked it up on the internet and on YouTube, but had trouble trying to learn. However, once I finally got it, I remember I burped on command for at least an hour (loudly too, lol, sorry past family). I didn’t stop since it made me feel good down there, even though I didn’t know that I was turned on. A short while after this, I started watching Rhett and Link on GMM and would get the same feeling down there whenever they burped in a video (especially Link). At least a year passed before I realized that I had this fetish (based on those past experiences).
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I definitely enjoyed burping by age 12, but I don’t remember that being the case when I first started experiencing arousal at around 10-11 years old (by which point I already had my bbw kink), so I’m not sure exactly when it entered the scene.
I was always awkward and insular enough as a child that I just kept quiet and enjoyed what I enjoyed. Had I gotten involved in relationships around the teenage years, it probably would have been much more difficult for me.
Thinking back further, however, I can identify a couple of experiences from when I was 4-5 years old which left me blushing heavily, and could definitely be read as a sign of my future sexuality.
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Burping had always really interested me, but I didn’t realize it was an actual fetish until part way through highschool. As a kid, I would always try to get other people to burp because it was just kinda fascinating to me, in part I imagine because I couldn’t burp myself which was something that really frustrated me (I actually only just discovered how to a few months ago after 20+ years of inability). One vivid memory I have is actually from when I was playing a Harry Potter game on the Wii and noticed that the fat lady portrait would burp on occasion and I kept walking by it trying to trigger that to happen.
It was actually this website that helped me discover that I had the fetish, but it was by complete accident. I actually originally came through this site to get a link to a farting video but one day a while later I decided to explore and watch some of the videos posted. At first I thought it was just interesting and a little funny and then slowly the realization dawned on me that it was actually pretty hot.
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Hi j.d.g,
Sorry for the delayed reply. If you could give me a few more details in terms of the context of who you what to tell that would be great.
Thanks,
Freud
took me a little while, i was interested in it since i was 12 but didnt know what it meant until i was about 15.
I personally think it’s something we developed when we went through puberty. That’s when we start to become aware of sexual tendencies. I’d be surprised if anyone honestly developed it after age 15 (not saying they didn’t admit to it until after that). I know I heard my first enormous female belch from a friend when I was 7 but obviously I wasn’t aroused. I was impressed though. By high school, I was fully aware of my fetish. I’m pretty sure I’m happy that the Internet was just getting popular and there weren’t a ton of burping videos around at the time, or I could have seen myself getting a little too into the kink and not able to be aroused by other things.
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