Where are the mods?! Shaming, mean comments, KIDS?!

No one here is trying to be quirky or funny. Requesting that underage content be removed from a fetish forum is not “entitled” it’s ETHICAL. If you were just here for the content like you said, you wouldn’t be picking fights on every thread. You’re entitled to your opinion, but you’re not the badass you think you are. Maybe grow up a little bit before you decide to engage on an adult forum.

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K u won’t smoke now too? See what u don’t realize is that idc if I get banned here. I live by my opinion. And u won’t change it. And when did I refer to asking for the removal of CP as quirky? Never. Get ur facts str8. More so, I said that using it against me is stupid, becuz I deleted it. Guess some people have single digit IQs 🤷. Ur a snowflake that can’t handle controversy

my guy, we’re having this conversation because you couldn’t handle someone calling you out for going on someone elses thread and flexing your superiority complex.

you seem to very cleary care so much about what other people do with their own money. you want people to not care about your opinions but then 180 and get super hostile when somebody else shares theirs.

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Ironic that Sasha may attacked my snarky comment after 1 week and u tell me that I’m the aggressor. Ironic that u say the same for urself when u jumped in to the argument knowing u wud get flamed. Boi oh boi.

but you literally were the aggressor. you walked into someones thread on spending their own money and insulted them for no reason other than to jerk yourself off. i think its universally accepted that you’re the aggressor here.

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K brah, u certainly aren’t a good reader

I might just start removing videos that show children entirely. I don’t really like to see that on here either.

Otherwise we don’t police the tone of a post as long as it doesn’t derail threads. Fake, obligatory politeness that you find on some forums makes a community feel corporate and phoney. I suggest the old strategy of don’t feed the troll if someone’s trying to annoy you.

There are no topics or viewpoints that are forbidden to talk about, although actual sharing of paid content will be removed.

Relevant rules are here: https://bfforums.com/faq#stealing

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I didn’t attack you, I gave my opinion. And to quote on quote you: “Ur an oversensitive loser that can’t tolerate a quick “fuck u”. So do me a favor and toughen up. U don’t like my opinion, then don’t like my comments” Think about that. I’ve never insulted you btw. I said it was disrespectful, and that being disrespectful is disgusting to me. Only an opinion. You want us to drop the ball but you continue to comment and attack people because you lack of arguments. Just leave pls. It’s very annoying.

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I thought this place was about respect and safe space but I guess attacking someone about their preferences is totally normal. Just ban him already what’s preventing you from it? He’s a jerk and spread negativity all over the site, shaming people and attacking others. I really don’t understand what this site has become…

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You know what, if you want to be an asshole, so be it. But I think it’s pretty sad when you know that everybody here are tired of your shit. I ask you politely, you can give your opinion all you want, but can you just be respectful please? It’s really annoying and dehumanizing for people who are already ashamed of their preferences. Thank you.

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“I didn’t attack u” lol ur deluded. U made a whole thread to attack me and others in fact. Nice try. Ur an adult. Move on and stop talking. Becuz a quick “fuck” isn’t hurting u ya snowflake. Ur not special or quirky.

To add to that u shudnt tell the mods how to run their website. They will ban and delete as they see fit. U aren’t special.

I genuinely expected some improvement with this site while I was away, but I guess there’s no such luck.

The mods and admin for this place? You can forget about reaching out to them 95% of the time. They used to care, but now? They don’t, and they don’t have the manpower to do their jobs properly. So they gave up. Kinda why lots of the “old guard” have left, why people are asking for their accounts to be deleted. They don’t want to be a part of this place.

It used to be safe for people to enjoy their kinks, advertise content they sell, and generally have a good time with like-minded people, and there are a few people who still try their damndest to keep that alive. But… well, you know the rest: people promoting not paying for porn and not supporting content creators, videos with underaged girls and guys, the whole unfortunate nine yards. There’s so much of it that the mods don’t bother with it anymore.

Of course, there are also very disrespectful individuals and groups around here that don’t make things any better. And they KNOW the mods won’t do shit, so they stick around to ruin other people’s days, or argue constantly and try to make enemies. My advice? Ignore people like Yumi and focus on interacting with people who share your interests and have some manner of decency and respect. After all, even if people aren’t trying to make friends, that doesn’t mean people can’t be respectful. I’m not here to make friends, yet I at least have the courtesy to act like the adult I am.

Anyways, best of luck with dealing with the assholes around here. You’re gonna need it.

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the forum rules also state this:

and this:

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Thank you for all this. It’s sad to see what the site has become, but there is still people like you and thatoneguy, so there’s that ahah. I’ll just ignore them but it’s so frustrating. I feel bad for the people that are genuinely hurt by those comments. Thanks for those who are on my side.

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Our admins are good just not super active, if we elect a few more active ones we’ll be fine. Very seldom do we see it get this bad, but @anon49846635 is literally across every thread on the site, one man army debating with 5 plus people at a time on multiple threads at a time. He’s a young hipster kid who’s probably broke and clearly likes to save himself money, which is great. Please do so off the site or on a different site because a this point it’s not even about proving a point, it’s just cringe now. He’s clearly younger by the way he types and talks, he puffs his chest out to everyone and probably has the IQ that of an elmer’s glue bottle. You spend way too much time on this site kid, just bounce and go somewhere else. The casuals dont like you, the frequents dont like you, and you’re now arguing with actual published models…this is pitiful lol

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Or u can just continue crying about people debating like the little baby you are. Over exaggerating is part of being a snowflake and u my dawg, are a snowflake. Also calling me broke is a good joke. I just value my dignity and money more than pornography because I’m smart enough to search on Google.

I don’t give a fuck if u don’t like me. I ain’t here to become ur friend. I’ve said that like 5 times.

You don’t have to force people to be fake, but you could cultivate an atmosphere of “if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all”.

Also, why’s there a “might” in your first sentence there?

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I liked your post but yet, what makes you say the admins are good these days? I think the overwhelming majority opinion of their work would be “apathetic and barely there”. It’s like they’re nominally running an AirBnB but from the other side of the world, and they only ever check in on it when they bother to make the onerous trip to do so. Except with this being the internet, said trip is hardly onerous. They just don’t seem to care. People see that in general, and in specific cases like with me where before I used to rate Umbris as a confidant who had my back against trolls and absuive people, but last I asked him about it, he decided to just remove himself from our PM thread like the whole thing was nothing of import to him. That was nice, btw, adminlord. Also, I don’t get why you think like we have the power to elect admins or mods haha.

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